6 Signs You May Have a Victim Mentality (without Even Realizing It)

The victim mentality is a malignancy feeding off neglect, criticism, and mistreatment. This feeling can become a way of life. Are you a perpetual victim? At the moment, I’m feeling like a victim. People keep calling me, texting me and I can’t get any work completed. I feel like I’m…

Sandbagging: a Sneaky Tactic Manipulators Use to Get Anything They Want from You

Sandbagging is used in competitive sports, careers and even social situations. It’s a form of manipulation used to gain the upper hand, and it's subtly devious. I became familiar with sandbagging some years ago. This form of manipulation is unlike any other tactic used by narcissists and toxic individuals. In…

Some People Have Their Brains Wired to Take Advantage of Others, Study Shows

When someone shows kindness or fairness, some or even most people try to take advantage of them, a recent study has found. One common goal that we all tend to have in life is the desire to achieve and succeed. Although this may seem like a great goal for all…

Chronic Anxiety Makes Υou Do Things Τhat Others Misunderstand

It’s not about getting upset when something happens. Chronic anxiety is much worse, and unfortunately, misunderstood. It’s not so strange to be triggered by a bad area of town, reluctantly traveling down a street where crime runs rampant. It’s expected that you would feel a little nervous, even downright petrified…

Gut Feeling or Irrational Fear? How to Tell the Difference

So, you’re scared… Is that a gut feeling or an irrational fear? Sometimes it can be so hard to distinguish what’s real from imaginary. Since I live a life filled with anxious feelings and clouded perspectives, I find it increasingly hard to distinguish between a gut feeling of fear and…

Living with Symptoms of Depression and Anxiety: the Raw Truth and How to Survive

When you live with the symptoms of depression and anxiety, some days are darker than nights. There are ways to survive, however. The known symptoms of depression and anxiety can range from hopelessness to crippling fear. It can be almost impossible to get out of bed sometimes. It's not about being…