Constantly being nagged about your choices, being forced to do things that you consider immoral or even getting criticized for every step you take lowers your confidence and self-esteem. What do such negative people do to your personality?
Yes, when one is surrounded by negative people, it impacts their train of thought as well as their actions in a negative way, due to which, one does not come out as an optimistic person. Avoiding such negativity becomes crucial to our self-development.
In this blog, we will discuss the ways that are to be applied if we want to become triumphant in tackling negativity in the form of negative people and thoughts and kick them out of our lives for good.
1. Cut off negative people
What would be better than eradicating the main source of negativity from your surroundings? When a person has positive people with positive thoughts around him, they are more inclined to become optimistic, while the pessimists are those who are surrounded by the complainers and negative people in general.
Therefore, if you spend time with people who inspire and motivate you, you are bound to become more productive and happy on the whole.
2. Find happiness within
Positive people meditate and look for an inner peace and energy within themselves rather than looking around and waiting for an external stimulation to bring them happiness. That quality of wholesomeness would be nowhere else except within you. Create happiness from within so that you do not have to look for an external source to uplift you.
3. No one else is to be blamed
We must all realize the fact that we are the sole reasons for our success and even failure. Human beings find it to be an easier resort to blame somebody or something else for their actions, especially when things do not work out for them.
If you want to be an optimist, make sure to contemplate and let go of all the activities that have brought you close to failure and focus more on the factors that uplifted you and can be further enhanced for your betterment. Start taking the responsibility and you will feel better when you notice positive effects on your personality!
4. Giving up leads to failure
One should look at a failed attempt as another experience, rather than becoming negative, Take it as a chance to learn and grow further. When positive people come across failures in life, rather than feeling down in the dumps, they stand up and fight back to reach their goals instead.
When you realize that a failure will only be short-lived if you put all your energy to strive for success, there will be no one stopping you from achieving what you believe in.
5. Invest in memories
They call retail therapy as an act that makes you feel better when you go out and spend money on whatever you feel like buying. For a short term happiness, it surely works. But if you look at it from the point of view of long-term gains, then there are hardly any.
It is better to invest in experiences that would help you in creating beautiful memories, such as planning a trip around the world, surprising a friend or relative by visiting them with gifts and presents, etc.
If you find some or all of the above qualities present in you, then you only need to perfect those more. But if not, would you like to practice any of the ones mentioned here? Do you have any other suggestions to bring wholesomeness to your lives? What is your way of bringing quality to your state of being?
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Serina Levis is the author of this guest post. After his Master’s in the field of Counselling, Serina started posting his insight on various blogs for the betterment of the mankind.
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