Saying the occasional egotistical statement and being an arrogant person are two different things. There are phrases that arrogant people use that reveal that difference.
The phrases arrogant people use will reveal who the self-centered, over-inflated individuals in our lives truly are. While it’s okay to retain a bit of self-importance and confidence, it’s not okay to look down on other people with a lofty attitude.
There is humbleness, and there is arrogance. It’s best to fall somewhere in the middle of those extremes so as not to drown in narcissism.
The phrases arrogant people use most often
There are three types of arrogant people, according to psychology. These are antagonistic, comparative, and individualistic arrogance.
With individual arrogance, a person thinks they’re capable of doing much more than their abilities allow. With comparative arrogance, a person, again, thinks more highly of their abilities, assuming lower intelligence of others comparatively. With antagonistic arrogance, an individual purposely and actively strives to degrade others.
And no, we aren’t all arrogant people with these characteristics, but we may show arrogance from time to time.
We may hear others brag, but maybe they are justly proud of an achievement at the time. We may even notice a loved one brushing us off, but it could be a bad time for them. There are reasons why good people say or do harsh things or make lofty statements.
Life is difficult, and we don’t always choose kind, logical words. However, an arrogant person will make a daily habit of saying certain harsh things. Let’s take a look at some of those phrases often associated with the arrogant person.
1. “I knew that already”
Maybe you already know that tidbit of information your friend is giving you. But you don’t have to remind people all the time that you already know these things. Sometimes it’s okay to consider advice even when you’ve heard it before.
An arrogant person will always let you know that they’re smart enough to have all the answers. This statement comes from a deep place of insecurity. They’re afraid that you think they aren’t smart enough to figure things out.
2. “I don’t need any help”
Most arrogant people will be fiercely independent individuals as well. They’ll refuse any sort of help unless it’s necessary. Arrogant people hate being weak, or they will not allow this, anyway.
Maybe a person won’t always need help, but if they say this every time someone offers to help, then they might be arrogant. This is one of the most common phrases that arrogant people use, and the funny part is that most of the time, help is needed.
3. “Just being honest”
Another of the phrases arrogant people use is “Just being honest”. But are they just being honest? Really? Probably not. In fact, when someone says this, they’re usually being insulting, and using the honesty cover to make them seem thoughtful.
Most people don’t fall for this harsh statement by an arrogant person. And yes, it’s always good to be honest, but there are constructive ways to go about this. You can use tact to tell the truth. Here’s a hint: if you always must follow up your honesty with this phrase, then you’re probably being arrogant, and you could be an arrogant person. Check yourself.
4. “This is just who I am”
I’ve used this statement before. I thought I was just being true to myself. Well, if you’re using this statement often, it could be something else at work. People who constantly excuse their actions for just being themselves may be a bit arrogant.
These people may not be willing to compromise, and compromise is important at times. Having a stubborn mindset may spell arrogance or even be an indicator of your overall character. Yes! Be yourself, but also be willing to work with others for the overall good of man.
5. “You would not understand”
So many of us feel misunderstood most of the time. I get that. I’ve often felt like an alien on planet Earth because I’m misunderstood more often than not. And I have felt like no one on earth understood me.
However, assuming that someone doesn’t understand something you’re thinking about before you give them a chance is just wrong. You’re downgrading their intellect. Maybe they understand more than you know, and maybe you’re turning into an arrogant person.
6. “Good luck with that”
This is one of the phrases that arrogant people use that feels insulting. The hidden meaning behind this phrase is,
“I don’t think you can do it without my help”.
It’s usually a phrase used by an arrogant person after being denied assistance. For instance, maybe you don’t need your arrogant friend to help you with baking a cake, and they feel dejected. This might be their response used to make you feel insecure about the endeavor. See how that worked? In other words,
“You’re going to need all the luck you can get because I don’t think you can bake a cake without me. I am the best there is!”
7. “I told you so”
I bet everyone has said this a time or two, and that’s okay. But if this phrase becomes part of your regular vocabulary, then you might be an arrogant person. Of all the phrases arrogant people use, this one is textbook. And to be honest, when something happens that way I said it would, even I itch to say this too. But it’s all about taming that arrogance inside us all, now isn’t it?
8. “No offense, but…”
This statement comes right before you say something offensive. It’s funny how that works. Here are some examples,
“No offense, but I could have done it better”,
“No offense, but I liked it better the other way”,
and “No offense, but I could have finished in half the time.”
Saying “No offense” is usually the precursor to something kind of offensive to the other person. An arrogant person has no problem being passive-aggressively offensive… or something of that nature. It’s best to shut it down before they can finish that phrase.
Try it sometimes. Maybe say, “Stop right there. I don’t need to hear the rest.” Then watch them get offended.
Are you or someone you know, an arrogant person?
Now and then I ask you to do some introspection. That’s because it’s important to always better ourselves. Do better and be better should be our driving forces in life. It’s like paying the kindness forward. Before we start nitpicking others and trying to show them the error in their ways, we should ask ourselves this:
“Is this article talking about me?”
Maybe you’re not the arrogant person in your life. Maybe it’s someone you care about. By reading through these phrases, at least you can recognize and differentiate between the two. I sure hope this helped today.
Go forth and improve the world. 😊
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My dookie-butt father finds secretive ways to say all these things.
Well, you don’t let your dookie-butt father have control. None of us is superior. hehe