Have you asked the universe to find your soulmate? It’s fine to wish, but how does the universe answer? What are the signs the universe wants you to be with someone?
The universe might throw out subtle clues or obvious ones, but unless you know what to look for, there’s no point asking in the first place. If you’ve sent a message into the ether, here are 24 signs the universe wants you to pay attention to.
24 Signs the Universe Wants You to Be with Someone
1. You feel an immediate connection
There’s this feeling of complete and utter connection when you’re with them you just can’t explain.
2. You’re drawn to this person
We connect easily with some people; others demand considerable work. The universe is nudging you towards this person, which generates feelings of warmth and trust.
3. There’s a sense of familiarity
You feel you’ve known them for years. They are just comfortable to be around.
4. You feel complete when you’re with them
Like two jigsaw pieces, when you’re together, you feel whole and complete.
5. You feel a sense of destiny about them
When you see this person, you feel destined to be with them. It’s a magnetic pull that’s irresistible.
6. You keep bumping into them
One of the most telling signs the universe wants you to be with someone is if you keep bumping into them. Maybe you’ve not seen this person as a potential partner, but reconsider if you keep seeing them, especially if you see them in unexpected places (but obviously not if they’re stalking you).
7. You have recurring dreams about them
Sigmund Freud believed our dreams are a product of our unfulfilled wishes and darkest desires, but others think it’s a sign. Note the content of the dream; universal signs are romantic and loving.
8. You feel you’re a team
Successful partnerships are like teamwork. You still have your individuality, but you work towards a common goal; your relationship.
9. You feel at ease with them
Some relationships are hard work, needing compromise; not this one. You feel comfortable and at ease when you’re with them.
10. There’s never any drama
I’ve been in a coercive controlling relationship where everything was an issue, and easygoing ones that are smooth and conflict-free. Absence of friction signals a strong connection, endorsed by the universe.
11. They’re easy to talk to
Conversation flows when you meet your soulmate, but pay attention to the first time you met, as this is especially important. Talking for hours with no uncomfortable silences is a significant sign the universe wants you to be with someone.
12. You’re comfortable with silence
The opposite of flowing conversation is silence, but it’s how you react to this silence that’s worth examining. If you’re relaxed, and conversation isn’t necessary, consider this a sign.
13. Strange coincidences happen when you’re together
Look out for strange coincidences, like repeated numbers or serendipitous events that occur with this person.
14. You notice weird synchronicities when you think about them
You’re thinking about this person more than usual and when you do, you notice strange synchronicities you cannot explain. Perhaps you both pick up the same book at the store or you buy one other an identical gift or you both sign up for the same college course.
15. They encourage you to be your best
This person supports you in achieving your dreams and ambitions without hesitation, because when you succeed, they succeed.
16. You feel safe around them
This isn’t necessarily a physical feeling, it’s a more emotional sense of well-being and protection.
17. You can talk to them about anything
One of the signs the universe wants you to be with someone is when you encounter this person, you can freely talk about deeply personal things you wouldn’t normally bring up.
18. You laugh about the same things
Sharing a sense of humor is important in any relationship, but it’s a good sign the universe wants you to be with someone.
19. They fit into your life seamlessly
You slot into each other’s daily and weekly routines effortlessly, and if there’s a compromise to be made, you deal with it together to make it work.
20. Your values and belief align
Some say that opposites attract, and while this may be true, it’s likely the universe is gently nudging you to a person with the same moral beliefs and values.
21. You like the same weird things
Whether it’s a little-known 80s synth band, western films set in space, or rating public toilets, you like the same weird things.
22. You want the same things
If this is the right person for you, your future dreams and goals are very similar.
23. Your friends love them
Getting your friend’s approval is an enormous sign the universe wants you to be with this person. Our closest friends often have a gut feeling when it comes to potential life partners.
24. You feel joy all the time
This feeling of connection and destiny resonates happiness and joy. There’s nothing more satisfying or comforting knowing you’re with the right person.
What to Do If You Recognize the Signs
It’s important to recognize genuine signs the universe wants you to be with someone and not read too much into patterns or coincidences you’ve noticed. Sometimes when we want something so much, we can see clues and signs that are not there. If in doubt, talk to a trusted friend who can be objective for you.
If you like this person, spend time with them. Fantasizing about a relationship with them won’t lead you any closer to fulfilling this dream. Doing this can give you unrealistic expectations if you date them.
Get to know the person behind the signs and note how your feelings change and develop. Do you still feel safe and joyful around them? Have you discovered more of their beliefs, and do they tally with yours? Are your friends still enamored by them?
This relationship may not be ‘the one’, but remember, it’s the journey that’s as important as well as who we meet along the way. We encounter some people who test our resilience; others teach us valuable lessons, and some even cause us pain. But we learn and mature from each encounter.
Final Thoughts
If you’ve sent your wishes into the universe and are waiting for a sign, there are things you can do while the universe aligns the world on your behalf. Keep working on yourself. Put yourself in situations where you might meet someone new. Say yes to events you’d normally shun.
These all help the universe with its efforts, but be ready to recognize the signs the universe wants you to be with someone.
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