Just as the universe guides us towards our soulmates, it also steers us away from toxic people. The trick is to spot the signs the universe wants you to stay away from someone. Here are 9 of them.
Signs the Universe Wants You to Stay Away from Someone
1. Something always stops you from meeting
When a person is toxic around you, the universe will put physical obstacles in the way. No matter how hard you try, it’s impossible to keep a date. Something always comes up. Whether it’s a bus strike, sudden illness, family emergency, work commitments, a broken cell phone, or a friend in need; you make a date but plans always fall through.
It’s so frequent it’s become a running joke amongst your friends. But this is no joke. It is one of the strongest signs the universe wants you to stay away from someone. The universe is pulling you apart, and they are making it crystal clear to you.
2. You get exciting opportunities that take you away from this person
The universe uses positive and negative energy to send signs. So, the above example of putting obstacles in your way is negative energy.
If you persist in continuing a relationship with this person, despite all the obstacles the universe places in your way, it will send out positive energy as exciting new opportunities to tempt you, but they’ll all have a catch; they take you far away from the toxic person.
Perhaps you’ve received your ideal college placement, a desired job promotion, or the offer of a rental in that cute courtyard everyone’s talking about. These opportunities will be impossible for you to resist, but in each case, it will also be impossible to maintain your relationship. This is the universe forcing you to make a choice.
3. You always have bad luck when you’re with them
When the universe wants you to stay away from someone, it stirs up negative energy, which manifests as bad luck. Does something always go wrong when you’re together?
Repeated bad luck with this person is one of the more subtle signs the universe wants you to stay away from someone, but be warned, you might not notice it at first. Perhaps you prang your car, you lose important documents, your dog gets sick, your washing machine breaks. These things start to build up, and you wonder what or who is the common denominator.
4. You keep attracting desirable potential new partners
This is another way the universe uses positive energy to nudge you onto the right path. It will show you how much more fulfilling your life could be by steering desirable partners into your orbit.
This is a clever tactic. Humans are habitual by nature, getting stuck in routines where they settle. This is a wake-up call from the universe, designed to rouse you from your sleepwalking life.
Perhaps you’re afraid of being single, or you didn’t believe you deserved any better. Now it seems wherever you go you’re meeting new people and there’s an instant connection that could go further. The universe is showing your ‘Sliding Doors’ opportunity.
5. You have unsettling dreams about them
Dreams are a window into our subconscious. The subconscious is where we bury the deepest fears and desires our conscious mind doesn’t want to deal with. The universe often uses dreams to communicate with us, and this is one of the most interesting signs the universe wants you to stay away from someone.
Have you started having disturbing dreams about this person? Perhaps they are chasing you and you are frightened, or you’re trapped with them and you can’t get out. Look for literal clues such as chains or shackles, sensations like moving in slow motion, and animals with negative connotations such as rats.
If you are always left with a sense of foreboding that you can’t shake off during the day and these dreams always feature a specific person, it’s a significant sign the universe wants you to stay away from them.
6. You feel drained when you spend time with them
We know some people are emotional energy vampires, sucking the joy and life from any situation. This is because we vibrate at certain levels. Those with high vibrations radiate positivity and lift those around them with their upbeat attitude. People with a lower vibration are pessimistic, have little joy or energy, and are not satisfied with their life.
Perhaps when you first met, their vibration level matched yours. However, since the relationship has progressed, it’s become clear either you have shifted, or they have. If your vibration has risen, this person has a choice; they can either raise their level, or you’ll move on.
7. You see repeated patterns everywhere
The universe loves to use repetition to communicate. Have you noticed certain numbers or words that seem to pop up all the time? In numerology, numbers have their own archetypes and significance. However, when the universe repeats a number, like 12.12 or 333, it sends a message.
When the universe wants to keep you away from someone, it will repeat the number 555. This number represents a drastic but necessary change. It is time to rid yourself of all the negativity in your life and embrace an exciting new beginning.
8. You see unlucky signs when you are together
Certain objects or animals are bad omens, for example, a black cat walking across your path, breaking a mirror, a solitary raven, curdled milk, gifting someone a clock, walking under a ladder and much more.
You can dismiss seeing any of these animals or objects as a silly superstition, but you should take multiple sightings as a warning from the universe to stay away from this person.
9. Messages from media
You turn on the radio and ‘I Will Survive’ blasts out. A friend lends you a copy of ‘The Power of Letting Go’. You switch on the TV and ‘The Break-Up’ is on. You receive a leaflet about a new singles bar in town. A new food delivery service has a great introductory price for single people.
Sure, this could be because of the frequency illusion — a phenomenon where you notice something all the time after you’re aware of it (e.g., your friend bought a red car, now all you see are red cars). Personally, I think this is one of the major signs the universe wants you to stay away from someone.
Final Thoughts
Breaking up, particularly after a long-term relationship, has challenges. However, the universe can see what you can’t, and it knows this person is toxic, so tit is doing all it can to warn you.
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