Psychology & Mental Health

Hiraeth: an Emotional State That Affects Old Souls and Deep Thinkers

Published by
Anna LeMind, B.A.

Let’s start with the definition. Hiraeth is an untranslatable Welsh word that describes a longing for a home, a place, or a feeling that no longer exists or never existed.

It’s a homesickness for the places from your past you can’t return to or even those you’ve never been to. Hiraeth can also mean nostalgia for your past self, the people who are long gone, or the emotions you used to feel.

But it can also describe a sense of yearning for imaginary places, feelings, and people – for example, the ones you read about. Sometimes, it feels as if you suddenly take a glance into your previous life and connect with the people and things that existed long ago – or, at least, could have existed.

Hiraeth is a perfect example of a comprehensive term that is impossible to explain with just one or two words. And everyone who is familiar with this rare word puts their own meaning into it.

The Hiraeth of Old Souls and Deep Thinkers

Old souls and deep thinkers are among those people who know what Hiraeth is better than anyone. These individuals are more prone to feelings of nostalgia and unexplained sadness.

According to the ideas of New Age spirituality, old souls are believed to be more intuitive, better connected with their inner self, and more likely to remember their past lives. If you relate to these beliefs, you could regard Hiraeth as a connection to your previous reincarnations.

In this case, it’s a feeling of longing for the places that were your home, the people who were your family, and the things you did in your past lives. It’s just one way to view this emotional state.

If we go with logic, a person with an old soul’s characteristics translates into a deep-thinking introvert. It’s someone who is highly contemplative, a dreamer, and an abstract thinker.

Such people are prone to feeling pensive or sad for no obvious reason. They think about their past often and immerse themselves in fantasy worlds.

No surprise that they may sometimes feel an unexplainable yearning for imaginary places and people. They also have the habit of overanalyzing their past, so they can feel nostalgia for the home they used to live in or the experiences they used to have.

All these are examples of Hiraeth.

When Can You Experience Hiraeth?

We all have felt this emotional state at some point in our lives, but most of us had no idea that there was a name for it. The best example of Hiraeth is the feeling you get when staring into the starry sky.

It’s an unexplainable longing, but you don’t know what or who you long for. The stars in the sky look so distant, and yet, it feels as if they are calling you. Is it some kind of lost homeland trying to reach out from a faraway galaxy or is it the stardust speaking inside you and reviving your connection with the universe?

I’m sure that you are familiar with this feeling, even though it’s difficult to explain. You can also experience Hiraeth while looking into the sea or the ocean. The boundless surface of the water, the reflection of the sky, and the unreachable horizon.

What is there beyond it? It’s the lands you’ve never stepped on, the lights of the cities you’ve never seen, and the foreign air you’ve never breathed.

This is when you start to feel an inexplicable yearning for the places you’ve never been to and are not sure they even exist. Maybe they are just a product of your imagination.

Have you felt this emotional state? If yes, then what is Hiraeth for you? I’d love to hear about your experiences.

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  • I feel this word accurately describes much of the feeling we military brats feel or at least felt as we grew up, moving from place to place every 2 or 3 years.

  • I've felt this my entire life. I've always thought about how I want to go home. I've never known where that is. I've never felt like I've found it. It is what compells me to keep evolving and trying to find my true home.

  • I have a deep sense of longing for a the ice when i see it i feel like ive always been there ive always graced over it and felt it with the soft warm touch of my palm and when i see figure skaters and the white culture in general it pulls me to the point I feel like its been separated from me but ive never once touched snow
    Only God understands this feeling in me. I don't quite believe in past lives or reincarnations but sometimes i feel like this body isn't my own.

  • Hiraeth doesn't mean that, it's a word that can literally only apply to Wales and Welsh people as it refers to the grief surrounding Welsh cultural erasure stemming from a love of Wales. Stop trying to use it as some kind of aesthetic phrase.

  • I read this word in a book I was reading and when I looked up the meaning, I was floored. This is me, every single day of my life. I have this deep yearning for the past and I no longer feel joy. I carry around a perpetual heart ache that I cannot sate. I have moved so much in my life before and also with my husband that I no longer feel "at home." My father was in the military so we moved quite often and now, with my husband, no place is ever right for him, so we continue to find a new place. No place ever feels like home and I'm afraid it never will.

Published by
Anna LeMind, B.A.
Tags: emotions