5 Signs Someone Is Using Mind Control against You and How to Prevent It

Published by
Janey Davies, B.A. (Hons)

If you think mind control is a term bandied about by crazed conspiracy theorists and best viewed in old spy films, think again.

Mind control is as relevant today as it was back in the 1950s when it was called brainwashing and used against American troops in Chinese prison camps during the Korean War.

So what exactly is mind control and how can we prevent someone from using it against us?

Mind control is the concept by which a subject’s thoughts and actions can be controlled by an external force. This can be via psychological or physical means and often involves breaking the subject down so that complete control can be achieved.

If you are thinking that this all sounds very far-fetched and implausible, it is worth remembering that mind control is used in our everyday lives, from advertising products to media bias in politics.

Here are five ways someone is using mind control on you:

1. Isolation

If you find yourself slowly being isolated from your friends and family, then this is a probable sign someone is trying to control your mind. Your nearest and dearest will no doubt tell you what is wrong with your new friend and that is exactly what they don’t want. They need you alone and vulnerable in order to break your spirit.

2. Moody behaviour

Does your partner sulk if he or she doesn’t get their own way? Do you tend to change your behaviour to stop or prevent an argument? This is the start of mind control, where your actions are changing because of what another person is doing. It is a tell-tale sign that they are trying to control your mind and are quite successful in it.

3. Metacommunication

This is a technique whereby a person gives subtle clues and hints using nonverbal cues. For instance, if a husband asks his wife if she is ok and she replies ‘Yes’ with a sigh and a shrug of her shoulders, this is clearly indicating she is not ok, but her verbal answer is positive. Some people use metacommunication to implant subliminal thoughts.

4. Neuro-Linguistic Programming

Neuro-Linguistic Programming or NLP is a technique of layering certain thoughts using language into a person’s unconscious mind without them knowing what you’re doing.

NLP looks at many different aspects of a person and uses language to plant suggestions. For instance, if a person is visually orientated, they will be spoken to using language using visual clues such as ‘Can you see what I mean?’ A person used to auditory cues will have hearing language used on them like ‘I hear you completely.’

5. Uncompromising Rules

Does your partner place unreasonable rules on your lifestyle? If you are expected to meet impossible deadlines, have strictly regulated mealtimes and bathroom breaks, no access to your own money or friends, then this is mind control.

What they are doing is taking all your decisions away from you so that you follow a strict set of behaviours. This, in turn, stops you thinking for yourself and makes it easier for them to implant their own agenda.

How to Prevent Mind Control

If you recognise any of the above examples, then it is time to break free from this person and their attempts to control your mind.

  • Stay in close contact with friends and family.

Do not allow your new partner or friend to get in the way of your seeing any of your old friends or family members. Insist on seeing them and if the answer is still no – walk away.

  • Do not put up with moody or sulky behaviour.

Treat it with the disdain it deserves, and make sure you tell the person exhibiting it that it is immature and childish and you won’t tolerate it.

  • Nonverbal clues

Watch carefully for nonverbal clues that do not tally with what a person is saying. Question them if their answers do not match their body language or actions.

  • NLP

NLP is a little harder to spot as anyone using it is likely to be a professional. Signs to look out for are initial feelings that you have found your soul mate, or that the person you have just met is perfectly matched to you. Watch out for someone that keeps mirroring your body language or uses vague phrases that don’t make sense.

  • Uncompromising rules

As for someone that imposes uncompromising rules, take advice from close friends and family when it comes to this situation. By the time it gets to this point, you will have probably been worn down with low self-esteem. By telling your friends and family, their instant reaction to what is happening to you should be enough to shake you out of this awful trap.

References:

  1. https://en.wikipedia.org
  2. https://psychcentral.com

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  • Can someone be saved once they have been controlled? This person was once a strong individual who had full control of her life. By the age of 23 she owned 2 homes and 3 cars. Now she has 2 small children and can't do much of anything. Her soon to he exhusnand purposely used NLP to control her and i know this for a fact as he once showed me how to make someone think and feel a certain way to get them to do what you want them to do. Telling me it's hid NLP Dale's strategy. Now she is an alcoholic and she says she doesn't know who she is or why she can't be the person she once was. Is there any way to help her. Is there a professional that she can see that knows how to reverse the damage caused by NLP mind control. Please help me find a way to help her. She is my daughter and her and my grandchildren are suffering from her inability to find herself. She cries daily saying she can't do anything right and can't find her way. Please help me find a way to help her. Angel.miranda.am@gmail.com

    • Hello Angel I read your post and it really touched me maybe you and your daughter and our children can all get together and help one another. Maybe she need someone who is going through the same thing she is and will understand and give her a real true friendship do to me not having any real friends in my life that's supportive and could also use her help and support as well because we are mothers who have to stand strong for our children and I totally understand her pain and doubt because I been through it myself. And I pray she has gotten better and knows her worth now to herself , her children and you especially as an concerned mother like you is so priceless smh if only I can see my mom and talk to her and hold her just one more time would be priceless for me Lord knows it will. Happy holidays and please don't take it the wrong way God bless you all sorry to bother.

  • My fake friends and family have used NLP and Trauma Based Mind Control on me since I was born. Emotional blackmail (withholding love and acceptance) and now a prearranged marriage to a girl that I didn't get when we dated and she sure didn't get me. My sister named her daughter the same name as her and asks me which one I am talking about in conversations, it's really aggravating. My life is complete bullshit and everything I have known is fake. My family and friends have made it known to me that I really don't have freewill or choice anymore because they want me to live and choose what they want. Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness is bullshit because there exists a predetermined outcome planned by them. I don't have what it takes to commit suicide but I damn sure will be glad when my life reaches it's natural conclusion. The earth is a pile of shit and nothing besides!

    • I know people who have made girls and women pregnant all around me who are all at different ages. Yet they don’t have family or kids. They made them pregnant to take them away from me because they would be busy with family now and don’t have time for anyone else and trust me a lot of them were single, simple, healthy people who had no interest in marriage. They changed them within three months. Ages were from 18 to 50+ who were made pregnant. They mind controlled them. Put doubts in their head how is your future going to be, who will be there if your alone, do you want marriage, family, showed them pictures of loads of kids to soften there mind. Had kids set up in environments to change how the person getting mind controlled thought about life. Had more kids ads targeted at them. Groomed them give them cars, holidays and took them to late night parties and got them drunk more often so their mind becomes so vulnerable and weak as well as dependent on there desires that they lose focus on themselves and independency that they crave to be attached so that it’s easy for controllers to corner them in to marriage and family as well as using religion as an excuse to get married when the controllers don’t believe in religion or will pretend to believe in it or take bits out to use and condition the controlled person for their evil malicious agendas.

  • monarchprogramming.com is my take on this, as far as the use of trauma, guilt, fear anxiety or doubt might cross your path.
    The easiest way to understand monarch programming is that it is rm as franchises. Each of the "usual suspects" are probably such franchises and no one for sure can tell which are real monarch mind control or false flags doing the same thing. It is pretty clever in that with all senses mimicked, controlled or diverted knowing what is above the false flags is not exac;ly rich with evidence as to who is pulling the strings, without themselves having their strings pulled. Even Presidents can't tell, as far as I can see studying the literature and having had a skinfull for the last few years plus. On twitter for the past 10 years I have been publishing or republishing snippets of sense that. I and others have been making of this covert form of mind control.

  • This whole NLP thing really makes reality look completely false. I am a current victim of mind control (was implemented on me by a former friend), been so for about a year and a half now and I can tell you all that this programming really takes a toll on me as a person and going about my day. I can’t even do a simple task without anybody making fun of my past memories or what I was currently thinking of at the time. People constantly make fun of me anywhere I go or laugh at me because of how I look. It’s really frustrating and almost made me go suicidal and at one point I considered harming others. I never let any of this go to my head because I’m NOT any of those things, people are just very cruel and don’t care for others like they would for themselves.

    Hopefully anyone reading this stays safe and watch out for NLP (it could be your very own friends and family).

Published by
Janey Davies, B.A. (Hons)