Spirituality

7 Twin Flame Stages You Need to Go through to Reunite with Your Soulmate

Published by
Andreea Vaduva, B.Sc. (Hons)

When we feel attracted to somebody or enter a relationship, we tend to believe that we have met our true love, the soulmate, the twin. However, there are 7 distinguishable twin flame stages that will help you identify the life-changing relationship.

First of all, it is important to define the connection of Twin Souls. This connection is actually an energy bond above all. Twin Souls have the same energy component as their vibrational frequency is exactly the same.

It is believed that originally, the two souls are part of the same sphere of pure energy. After the sphere was divided into two, the two souls were separated for thousands of years, and they took a bit from the energy of others with whom they interacted in every life.

Thus, there are several twin flame stages the two souls should go through in order to reunite again.

Nowadays, we are noticing more and more twin souls relationships as their mission is to reunite and become examples of unconditional love. They are meant to live a healthy and abundant life and, at the same time, help humanity by increasing positive vibrations and create a New Earth based on values, virtues, and love.

But in order to reach the Union, each soul needs to evolve and leave behind the whole accumulated baggage of the thousands of lives and reach the same pure energy that they both had at the beginning. This is where the seven different twin flame stages come into play.

Desiring Each Other

Long before twin souls physically meet one another, they sense each other. They intuitively know that their better half is somewhere in the world. They can feel each other’s vibrations, they may even telepathically communicate and sense each other’s unhappiness or personality traits.

Recognition or the “Wake-up Phase”

Both recognize each other and experience a soulful connection. They feel as if they have met before. Synchronicity events take place in order to create the union, and this when the heart chakra opens, so both souls can merge into third unified energy.

Both souls experience an acceleration of spiritual understanding. Every thought or emotion is well understood without requiring much communication.

Testing

Spiritual awakening temporarily disappears and the ego reinstalls. One or both of the souls try to bring the relationship into the “old model” of love, where the desires of the ego and false beliefs are highlighted. This is when Internal conflicts occur.

The souls attempt to guide one another to what they have been taught to believe as being the true definition of love. As such, they will try to shape or change one another, while they both feel at the same time inspired and overthrown by the power of the union.

Doubts begin to appear, making one or both of them see the dear one in a critical and suspicious way.

The purpose of this phase is to bring to the surface old believes, perhaps learned over time, in order to be eliminated. This way, the twin souls can regain their pure, initial energy.

Crisis

The third one of the twin flame stages is defined by a crisis. It is the phase where they reject egotistical beliefs about love or relationships. Having to give up on the ego or the false identity based on desires and beliefs in order to embrace a higher experience of love can lead to stubbornness and anxiety.

Fear can take the lead by triggering many common dysfunctional emotions.

Despite contradictory perceptions, this phase could be considered a ritual that will cement the existing love and create high levels of consciousness in the energy of the two flames.

Fugitive Thoughts

The accumulated tension between the twin souls can either be beneficial and strengthen the union or can backfire and tear them apart for a while.

This is the twin flame stage where frustrations may appear and a strong desire of ending the union. Perhaps temporary separations or silence may be experienced in order to contemplate the meaning of the union and its chances of survival.

The success of the union is based on the emotional maturity of the involved parties. If one of the partners may still need time to evolve, it may be that rupture of the union will occur, so s/he can then return.

Surrender

At this stage, the twin souls surrender their wishes and desires into the hands of Divinity, with full trust and faith that their union will remain strong. They also realize their mistakes and see their ego as the main obstacle in the path of their complete happiness.

Consequently, they openly discuss their plans and wounds, as they wish to work out through their differences. Therefore, the frequency of compassion returns and remains.

Two Become One

In this stage, the ego dies, and the divine force takes control, leading to a complete spiritual awakening. This is the stage where the twin souls radiate divine love, instead of mere romantic love.

The partners fully abandon their emotions, mind, and spirit in the hands of divinity and subsequently, reach soulful maturity. New creative and healing abilities are being developed, such as forgiveness, flexibility, complicity, passion, and patience.

After all the seven twin flame stages, the two souls being to think and act like one.

Are you one of the lucky souls who has met their twin? If so, please share with us your experience with twin flame stages, and let’s help others identify their soulmate.

References:

  1. https://lonerwolf.com
  2. https://thoughtcatalog.com

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  • I have recently found my twin flame, it started as a regular relationship but we were convinced we have met before (in this life and others) we are closely connected.
    We went through some (minor compared to past relationships) issues and miss communications, but we are honest with each other and talk through things.
    As time has passed our connection has only got stronger and more intense, not calmed down.
    We feel like a part of us is missing when we are apart and meeting after a few days apart is so intense energy wise we can’t talk for several minutes.
    This relationship doesn’t compare to anything I have ever experienced and I am sure I have found my twin ♥️

  • I think sometimes the most beautiful things and people have come to me when I stopped trying to find or label things but to just be fully there and not wanting something to happen because then my perspective changes and it makes me believe things that are not true. I think if a twin flame is a flame and you meet them you just simply know if there is a doubt it could be that he is not or maybe your egoic stories or fears are clouding your pure intuition. Either way a twin flame or any type of important relationship isn’t there to complete you or take that deep sadness of not feeling whole away it is there to amplify you. To amplify your spiritual energy but also shed light and expose your conditioning and beliefs that Hold you back. All so you can be on your journey to realize you are whole and complete and always part of th greater one-ness. And twin flame or not if you open your eyes and mind and heart and soul more, those same type of spiritual practices can occur with everyday people in your lives. That is what I believe from my own experiences, they definitely don’t have to be the only truths but these are my best truths I’ve found so far. I hope they may be helpful if not thats ok too, it just means you have your own truths to find do your own exploring and testing.

  • This site sounds more elaborate and realistic than some of the Twin Flame stages I have read recently online trying
    to get some input about my current experiences.Twin Flames definitely are no party and it hurts like hell, to experience all this. Though I feel most connected with my Twin at night. I think this is mainly because I have always been an night owl, and because, there seems to be a "soulful connection" I am able to pick up on that is twice as strong at night than it is during the day. Meditating also comes easier.
    Many may comment after this, reassuring me that I have indeed "not" have met my twin yet in any realm or that I am not "Merged" completely with them because well, we have not met in the physical yet. The problem is, that I know this person is and always have, except, their identity has only come to light to me just in the last year or so. I have mistaken them for a guardian angel when I was much younger before my teenage years, and then just recently, I felt a heavy transformation that is still happening, but really started almost three years ago and came on strong. When everything was quieting down, I felt my heart chakra opening up, and my whole body was going into this sort of "soul gasm" sort of frequency, something I could not put my finger on, but I have not felt since well forever, but I knew was familiar. Then, about 2 weeks later, I felt a massive "shift" and he came around to my town, and I could feel he was close, but I did not get the chance to "reunite" in the flesh for the first time yet. I know what he looks like as I have seen his indentity in my dreams for many years. As we were close to meeting we never did. Is there a reason for this? I know I was not completely in the best zone nor situation in my life, which gave me a whole lot of unwanted "fear" and I am wondering if this is the prime reason we never got to meet yet? Is he not ready yet either? I know it is him because of that intuitive "knowing" the peace I feel when I just think of him, and the flashes I continue to have spontaneously of us having these discussions that only lasta few seconds at a time, but are so real I can touch them and breathe them. Undeniable feeling of knowing. <3

  • I did meet my soulmate.. I wholeheartedly believed it and still do so.. unconditional affection, inspiring you to be a better person, seeking enlightenment together, communication understood without much words. Now I doubt if the other person considered so, as the fugitive thoughts have taken over and are being apart now.. how even one row has set things apart.. I guess we are in our own phase of emotional maturity though both are sure emotionally mature individually.. this phase has its own imbalances and thoughts to let the soul free and find its path to light with hope to reunite.

  • Hi, I've never been the one to comment on things like these but thought why not, let's try it out. Well, I accidentally literally bumped into the person I now believe is my twin flame. Weirdest thing ever because it felt as if I had already knew her. It was just a feeling that I got. Well, we lasted for about a year, it was a good relationship up until I went back into school, which made me go part time for work, which slowed alot of our future plans down. That's when we split. It wasn't even an agreement, we had one small disagreement, she left for work and didn't come back. We did talk, she wanted time to think, and then we eventually split. When things get tough for her, she gets overwhelmed and she runs. Plus, she was also dealing with her own things as well. Anyways, 2 months after we split she popped up just to see me. She told me she doesn't know why but its hard to forget me, as likewise for me. She left again and 2 months later she came around again. I gave in and we got touchy and after that she disappeared again. It's been some months now since I've heard from her but there's not a day that goes by without having her on my mind or even these weird feelings. It's more like an intuition, it's quite hard to describe but I'll try my best. It's as if I can sense her, feel her. Sometimes, I can feel shes not ok. Til this day, I try to forget her, not sense her and move on with my day. I try to focus on my classes and still, she manages to make her way to me. It's so frustrating and the weird thing is that I've never been like this before with anyone else. Not my ex whom I've been with for 5 yrs, not anyone, and here I am with someone I've been with for 1 year. 1 year! Also, I deactivated all of my social medias, Facebook, Instagram, more so I can focus on my classes but also to avoid her. Out of sight out of mind or so I thought. Even today she still has my sister n law on the Facebook and my best friend on her snap and Facebook. Now, I still have some people from my ex of 5 yrs on my Facebook but common sense. The way things ended were not on a good note. Therefore, you wouldn't still have my family member or best friend on your social media. To back up a bit to when she came around after 2 months from the break up, she did ask questions as to why I'm not on social media because she's been looking for me. Also, she's stated that she has seen pictures of me in class and was trying to locate my school I guess from the logo that was on my shirt. Stalker much, but I dig it. Lol. So to me, she has them on there to see what I'm doing if they ever were to post any pictures up of me. Just yesterday I went to get some breakfast at a spot where we used to go. I figured it'll be ok, until I entered the area and the restaurant. I was overwhelmed by a strong sense. I became nervous and shaky, it was like a whirlwind...in my body. Crazy. The feeling was just so strong, it drained me a bit.
    Anyways, I didn't know anything about twin flames until my friend told me so and so here I am writing to you.

Published by
Andreea Vaduva, B.Sc. (Hons)