When we feel attracted to somebody or enter a relationship, we tend to believe that we have met our true love, the soulmate, the twin. However, there are 7 distinguishable twin flame stages that will help you identify the life-changing relationship.

First of all, it is important to define the connection of Twin Souls. This connection is actually an energy bond above all. Twin Souls have the same energy component as their vibrational frequency is exactly the same. It is believed that originally, the two souls are part of the same sphere of pure energy. After the sphere was divided into two, the two souls were separated for thousands of years, and they took a bit from the energy of others with whom they interacted in every life. Thus, there are several twin flame stages the two souls should go through in order to reunite again.

Nowadays, we are noticing more and more twin souls relationships as their mission is to reunite and become examples of unconditional love. They are meant to live a healthy and abundant life and, at the same time, help humanity by increasing positive vibrations and create a New Earth based on values, virtues, and love.

But in order to reach the Union, each soul needs to evolve and leave behind the whole accumulated baggage of the thousands of lives and reach the same pure energy that they both had at the beginning. This is where the seven different twin flame stages come into play.

Desiring Each Other

Long before twin souls physically meet one another, they sense each other. They intuitively know that their better half is somewhere in the world. They can feel each other’s vibrations, they may even telepathically communicate and sense each other’s unhappiness or personality traits.

Recognition or the “Wake-up Phase”

Both recognize each other and experience a soulful connection. They feel as if they have met before. Synchronicity events take place in order to create the union, and this when the heart chakra opens, so both souls can merge into third unified energy.

Both souls experience an acceleration of spiritual understanding. Every thought or emotion is well understood without requiring much communication.


Spiritual awakening temporarily disappears and the ego reinstalls. One or both of the souls try to bring the relationship into the “old model” of love, where the desires of the ego and false beliefs are highlighted. This is when Internal conflicts occur.

The souls attempt to guide one another to what they have been taught to believe as being the true definition of love. As such, they will try to shape or change one another, while they both feel at the same time inspired and overthrown by the power of the union. Doubts begin to appear, making one or both of them see the dear one in a critical and suspicious way.

The purpose of this phase is to bring to surface old believes, perhaps learned over time, in order to be eliminated. This way, the twin souls can regain their pure, initial energy.


The third one of the twin flame stages is defined by a crisis. It is the phase were they reject egotistical beliefs about love or relationships. Having to give up on the ego or the false identity based on desires and beliefs in order to embrace a higher experience of love can lead to stubbornness and anxiety. Fear can take the lead by triggering many common dysfunctional emotions.

Despite contradictory perceptions, this phase could be considered a ritual that will cement the existing love and create high levels of consciousness in the energy of the two flames.

Fugitive Thoughts

The accumulated tension between the twin souls can either be beneficial and strengthen the union or can backfire and tear them apart for a while.

This is the twin flame stage where frustrations may appear and a strong desire of ending the union. Perhaps temporary separations or silence may be experienced in order to contemplate the meaning of the union and its chances of survival.

The success of the union is based on the emotional maturity of the involved parties. If one of the partners may still need time to evolve, it may be that rupture of the union will occur, so s/he can then return.


At this stage, the twin souls surrender their wishes and desires into the hands of Divinity, with full trust and faith that their union will remain strong. They also realize their mistakes and see their ego as the main obstacle in the path of their complete happiness.

Consequently, they openly discuss their plans and wounds, as they wish to work out through their differences. Therefore, the frequency of compassion returns and remains.

Two Become One

In this stage, the ego dies, and the divine force takes control, leading to complete spiritual awakening. This is the stage where the twin souls radiate divine love, instead of mere romantic love.

The partners fully abandon their emotions, mind, and spirit in the hands of divinity and subsequently, reach soulful maturity. New creative and healing abilities are being developed, such as forgiveness, flexibility, complicity, passion, and patience.

After all the seven twin flame stages, the two souls being to think and act like one.

Are you one of the lucky souls who has met their twin? If so, please share with us your experience with twin flame stages, and let’s help others identify their soulmate.


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    Deb Olsen

    I had a twin flame ,we were connected from 1975 but together/ married 1998 – 12-27-2015 . our connection was killed when hospital drugged him changed him from loving truthful good person to mean hateful ahole.have not had any contact since12-5-2016. I miss what we had but feel nothing from him . will it come back?

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      Andreea Vaduva

      Hello Deb, I am sorry to hear your loss and I can only imagine the feeling of emptiness you might feel now that the spiritual connection is gone. Soulmates can either come to our lives to teach us a lesson or they stay with us until the end. Time will tell if it will come back, but regardless of that do not lose hope.

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    Sean Oberholster

    I believe I may have met my twin flame at a party. Felt like a movie. I was on the dance floor with a friend, busy looking through the crowd taking in the site of all the people having a great time, and then I locked eyes with her across the dance floor and that feeling I felt is like nothing I have ever felt before. I had this intense surge of energy which literally took my breath away. I struggled to breath, had to go outside for fresh air and that’s when I realized she felt the same thing or something very similar because she too came outside but she was looking for me. I was not in a great place at that point in my life, and I then my biggest regret happened. I froze, I got shy, scared and had frozen feet, let alone cold feet. I know I should have said something to her but I had the biggest cowardice moment of my life and I am still hoping I will get another chance to fix my mistake by bumping into her again and actually having the courage to say anything. Moral of the story……. moments like that can be very rare, it doesn’t happen to everyone and some people only get one shot. It’s been about 4 or 5 years since I had my experience. I’m still hoping to get a second chance so I can stop kicking myself about my biggest mistake and regret so far in life.

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      Andreea Vaduva

      Hello Sean, indeed some experiences are unique and unmatchable. However, people tend to make a confusion between infatuation and spiritual connection. They are both very intense and difficult to tell which one is what. From a personal experience, twin flames connect and their bond lasts for a long period of time. Whether forever or for a period of time until we learn something about ourselves or the world.
      I do believe that you still have to meet your twin flame whose presence will stay longer in your life than a few moments.Good luck!

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        Hi Andreea, thank you for the reply. That presence would have last longer if had I had acted on it. I believe that experience was maybe more of a lesson to act upon the events that make me feel the way I felt in that moment and to find the courage to act upon it as opposed to feeling those feelings and then not doing. I’ve read that we should seek out the moments that make us feel the way I felt in that moment as that feeling, that vibe I got was something that resonated with my own soul, hence the intense energy I felt. Is that now wrong, to try and seek out moments like that? Is it better to wait for those moments to find you?

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        Raquenda Fludd

        I am for certain I have met my twin flame, we met in 2007 it was like I always felt like I knew him already, 2011 we had our fallout but were still spiritually connected no matter the distance we always kept in touch it was like we can always feel eachother. 2018 we reunited and we decided to be husband and wife after being friends for so long. We had to go through insecurities, hurt, pain,forgiving, all that to know that us being together was written in stone. We are designed for each other I can feel him always. Right now we are a apart but yet so close I can feel him every step of the way. I remember like yesterday when I doubted us ever being together, but I always knew that I would always be by his side that’s where I belonged I just couldn’t see what I see today. I look forward to this beautiful amazing journey of love it will only get greater.

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      Hello Sean,
      I don’t know if you met your twin flame or not at the time, but may I give you an advice?
      I know it’s hard to open up to people, especially when you’ve been hurt in the past (believe me I totally understand you), but is it to much trying to contact her directly instead of hoping to meet her randomly somewhere? I mean, you are expecting a different outcomes in response to the same action you’ve been enacting during these 5 years…
      Believe me, once you’ll do it, you feel free from regret and sadness, because at least you tried.
      I did the same with the person I thought was my twin flame or significant one… we met, I felt home and already acquainted with him from first time, fallen in love with him, and then he humiliated me (even though with time I realise that I let him doing it) to the deepest and broke me… then it started the sorrow phase, then he started appearing and disappeared till last year, he came very very close, he didn’t spoke a word while starring at me (I suppose he expected from me to approach him and starting conversation, whereas at the time I was expected at least an apologie for what he “did”).
      A week later I put my pride or ego aside and texted him if he needed to talk with me, at which he’s never replied. Waste of time. End of the story.
      This ain’t a happy ending love story, but at least I know that was unrequited love.
      I mean when I’ll be old I will not regret or dwell in those thoughts like: what if I tried, what if I told him and so on, because even if I could ending up being rejected, well at least I TRIED.
      So dear, I hope you’ll find one day the courage to express your feelings to that person, because being in love with yourself and with another people it’s just the most amazing thing it will happen to you in this lifetime… so be BRAVE! I wish you all the best.

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    John A. Kraft

    This is based on pure fantasy; it even sounds somewhat new age. I would get to know a person very well for a 2-year minimum to avoid actresses. Also, men need to avoid toxic feminists in transition between believing men are a necessary evil and men are an unnecessary evil. Such are contaminated.

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    Betty Phillips

    I met my soul mate in 1975 . I had graduated from high school in Brown County Indiana. My parents were living in Indianapolis. Because my dad had an appliance business. My sister was a newspaper delivery girl. I went with her to collect the money from her clients. That’s when I first saw him. We started dating later that year. We got married in February of 1977. But we got divorced in April 1983. Every since. We have run into each other over the years. My mom had told me that, me and him were soul mates. But I just kinda brush it off. But she’s right. Because I haven’t been happy with anyone else. I have been in several relationships. None of them have lasted very long. And the same for him. I’m currently married to my 3rd husband. Whom of which I am separated from now. My first husband was my soul mate. He’s been on my mind extremely strong. To the point, I can feel him. I get really nervous, anxious, and jittery. Every time I have those feelings. He shows up.

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    I am in a twin flame relationship and working toward union. It is a very, very challenging spiritual connection. Please consult Marla Kelly of Twinstrology, Cassady Cayne of Twin Flames 1111, Karen Burness of Twin Flame Psychic 1111, Sonya Evans of 10 of Cups Ministries or Sabriye Dubre from Gangsta Goddesses for accurate information on this journey. This is much different and infinitely more complicated than a soulmate connection. Thank you.

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    Leah Sparks


    So haha. I don’t know what to think about my situation that happened 7 years ago. In only a few months. In late May of 2012, It all started when I walked into home depot where my mother had worked at that time. I went to go see how she was doing. And as I walked down the mine isle. I locked eyes with this certain person. He was an employee there. We were going the opposite directions. Both wearing our sunglasses. But still felt that intense connection. But I didn’t know what was going on what was happening at that very moment. I thought it was odd. I didn’t think it was live at first sight or anything like that. We only had locked eyes for a minute, didn’t even take our eyes off each other as we were moving. As our connection broke I could still feel their eyes upon me. So I looked back and I did a double take. Sure enough they were looking right at me. I still didn’t think much of it. But even so it felt weird to me like none other I’ve ever felt. I seriously didn’t know what to make of it. So when I finally found my mother I was talking to her. And then they noticed and came over. Thus the exchanging of names between us. And then after talking i went on my way. They asked my mother if I was taken. And my mother thought he was talking about my little sister and said no. I was taken at that point in time. Then a week later I met them again. I was walking with my roommate and we walked to an auto part store. They were struggling putting on their wippers haha. Recognized them and said “you’re that person from home depot” and they told me their name and I told them mine and they said “yeah I remember” I felt bad for not remembering their name. So I helped them out. But we both were having trouble putting on the wippers. Then the manager comes out and puts them on for him. We felt a bit foolish haha. Then after my roommate came out, we were about to leave. But before that they asked what I was doing afterwords (not my roommate) I told them that I was going to go see my boyfriend at his work on his lunch break. And they kind of collapsed from disappointment on the hood of their vehicle. But yet they still asked me for my number. So after the exchange of numbers, we said our goodbyes and went our separate ways. Then the next day my mother tells me that they were disappointed in my mother cause she had told them false information about me. She didn’t know that they were talking about me at the time when they asked if I had a boyfriend. So she told me that they kept asking about me. And they ended up wanting to hangout with me and get to know me. They were going shopping for new gauges and he wanted me to go with them. I told them I’m not sure if my boyfriend would like that very much. But then they told me that nothing was going to happen. I thought about it then I agreed. They came to pick me up. And when they arrived my mother and sister and her friend were teasing me. And they told me to go out and to not make them wait. I was a bit nervous. I went out and they got out of their vehicle. They said “hi” 🙂 and for some odd reason I just hugged them out of nowhere?! It was kind of intense actually haha. I ended up checking them into their vehicle haha. They didn’t say anything or freak out. Then my sister and her friend opened the door and were teasing me again. It got awkward and it was time to go. So we ended up going to the shop. And as they were looking for their gauges. I caught their reflection in the mirror. And I just told them that they were really cute haha. And they kind of got surprised. But they said thank you. And I was looking through the inscence and I found one that I liked the smell of. And they told me that they would get it for me. But I felt not right about it. So I put it back. And then when it was time to leave they asked where was the item I had. I told them I had put it back. So they insisted on looking for it. So they ended up finding it. And they did buy it for me. After we left they took me out to lunch. Chinese/Japanese restaurant. We got our food and sat down. They wanted to try my sushi and had their mouth open for me to feed it to them haha it was cute. So it took my chop sticks and grabbed one and put it in their mouth. They didn’t like it and I pointed where the bathroom was and they went to go spit it out haha. Then after we left. They dropped me off and we said our goodbyes. I needed up finding them on Facebook and I messaged them. Telling them I had a great time. After awhile I ended my relationship with my boyfriend. It wasn’t going so well anyways. I wasn’t happy in it. But I didn’t get with the other person. After I ended my relationship. I told them that I had broken up with my boyfriend, and that I didn’t deserve to see them anymore either. They insisted that I go meet them on the beach. But I refused and told them it was nice meeting them and thanked them for everything before telling them goodbye. Then my mom got a text from them asking if I was ok and said that they wanted to see me. So we met them down at the beach. They were about to give me a hug, but I closed myself off. Cause I felt I didn’t deserve to be around this them. So we went walking on the beach my mother in between us. And I said I just wanted to die. And they said if I said it one more time they would tackle me. So I tested their bluff and said it a few more times. And then my mother said that this was my own battle and walked ahead. And then they came up behind me, almost got me. My pants almost fell off. I had to get them back up. As I was getting my pants up they tackled me haha. But they made sure that I wouldn’t get hurt, even though it was sand. It was funny. I just enjoyed being around them. So we end up hanging out more with each other. We went to a bar with my mother and met people he knew there. We all grabbed a table and then we all danced. And then the song “paradise” came on and they offered their hand out to me to go dance. And we had slow dance. It felt so intense to me. Like a dream. They ended up staying at my mother’s house with us for the night. They were buzzed. My mom gave them a nice bed to sleep in. But I didnt want to leave their side. My mother told me it was time for bed. I stayed the night with them at their place a few times. We watched movies, played video games together, messed around a little. Didn’t have sex. Once I fell asleep on their couch I didn’t mean to. I was just really tired. Then they picked me up and carried me to their bed. (I know cause I heard them said “she’s heavier than she looks”) haha. And I felt like I was really light, as if i was floating. One day they decided to stop smoking. Then I caught them smoking and had gotten a bit irritated with the cause of it. And walked off. Then they got in their vehicle and drove after me. Told me to get in. We drove down to the beach. Parked on the beach was telling me they were stressing out. Cause they were leaving for Hawaii soon. And about their mothers illness. They had planned so much out before we met. And then they got out of the vehicle walked down to the waters edge and sat down. I got out walked down to where they were. I came up behind them and sat behind and wrapped my arms around them. I felt so bad. I wished time had stopped at that moment. So we made the most of the time we had left together. We went to the bar (different one this time) my mother, them, their roommate at the time and myself. We just had a few drinks. My mom left. Then it was just us 3. There were these 2 guys and one of them tells me that I was very beautiful. But something about it made me highly uncomfortable. But I still said thank you. And then they were talking to the other guy in their language and then looking back at me. I didn’t know what to do at that point. So my friend (well we were more than just friends now but not dating just really close) saw that I was uncomfortable and led me outside. They leaned up against their vehicle and motioned me over there. I walked over and the wrapped their arms around me. And was telling me that they had to leave soon and about their mother’s illness. I felt bad for their mother (Oh by the way this person is adopted, should have mentioned that way sooner). So I wanted to go home cause I didnt want them talking about them leaving again. I told them I was going time all home. And they said ok walk home. And when I tried to get out of their arms their arms wouldn’t move. They were playing with me. So I push against them really hard. And I could feel their arms losing tension. And they pulled me closer and brought me to the ground (there was grass under us thank God haha) so they ended up taking their beanie off and placing it under my head before we hit the ground (that was sweet) and as I was laying there I looked away from them. I didn’t let my eyes meet theirs (our eye connection was always so intense like their eyes touched my soul. I had a hard time looking into their eyes I wanted to don’t get me wrong, I just wasn’t used to how strong it was so I always looked away after 5 seconds) anyway they said “I’m not over there” I let out a big sigh before turning towards them. It was so intense. I wanted to run from it. But at the sametime I wanted to accept it. Then after awhile they helped me up and brushed off the grass on my back after grabbing their hat off the ground. Then their roommate drove us back to their place. And we all went to bed. Then the day came before he had to leave he stayed the last night with me at my mother’s house. The next morning it was time for them to go and visit with their loved ones before they left. It was hard to part ways after so much that had happened in so little time. After they left I felt that someone had just truly been torn from me for the first time. It was hard for me for a long time. I’d cry every night before going to sleep. I did that for about 3 years. Thought about them all this time. There’s more but hah I think I’ve said enough already..anyways..yeah..they are the one that I’ve truly felt I had something special..not like a soul mate..but a twin..I felt like they had became a part of me and I a part of them..but maybe this sounds more like a romance story to you..but what I experienced felt so much more beyond that..but I’ll let you be the judge of that..

    Sorry for the novel, going to bed it’s 4:20 in the morning here in Alaska. Goodnight

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    I met my twin when I was 17 . He walked into the nightclub and I turned to my friend and said “it’s him” I was so in love and our chemistry was so intense , we hung out for a few years , we both had suck complicated lives . Seemed we were an unspoken oasis,
    We went our separate ways and then reconnected some 30 years later.. It’s a bumpy ride but I just know , there will never be anyone who I have such a deep connection with.. I’m learning so much and hopefully evolving , I have had to put my boundaries up for now as I would rather wait until we can be equal in each other’s lives.. we need this separation in order to heal and be open enough for what will come. We are so powerful , loving and fun together, we both have so much past hurt . This is so hard and think everyday about my twin.. here I am sat on my hands, waiting for my love to fully come for me.. in the meantime , I continue to peel back my layers , learn , love , evolve.. I’m at the “please God, arch angel Michael , Arc angel Gabrielle , Saint Mary I give our love to you , trust you will work your divine magic over myself and my twin and bring us together so we can be stronger lightworkers and keep sharing heaven on Earth ❤️🙏🏾

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    i crossed paths with a person that i know i met before and when we embraced i was opening up to kiss him and didnt realize til i looked in his eyes (i caught myself, it was not lust as there was no sexual intention or desire) and so icame back to this physical world and i walked away; we also met in my dream time while he was in ceremony , another presence arrived and i awoke , he is with his new family in this lifetime, i keep telling myself to let him be, the signs keep showing me its him though so i just keep focusing on healing in my journey in this lifetime. and offer friendship cuz i too am legally married but separated and have children to rear, its not time i guess

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    I’m laying next to my real twin flame right now. It’s a long story so I’ll try to keep it short as possible. The reason I want to express this experience is because there are people on the comments who have not met their twin flame and may never get the chance to.

    If memory serves me right, I met my twin flame in Houston or Dallas, Texas, at Hurricane Harbour/Six Flags. I was 7yo and me, my little brother, and our father were visiting my father’s Auntie. We’ll fast forward during my 100th cycle around the lazy river in a day dream sky watching cloud gazing stayed of consciousness, I felt a sudden shift in energy like a shock or slowly regaining your hearing and sensing people around you after a loud buzzing noise subsides. I looked around, where is my brother? There he is! Then I turned to get a quick look at the scenery and new faces that became apart of the lazy river crew while I day dreamed. I saw her, looking at me with the most subtle shy face, she was 5yo, and she was like looking into a mirage yhay you wanted to be real soon so bad. I started my attempts to catch her attention from her sister, who at this point seemed possessed with stealing her from me. I splashed her with water and she gasped and have me a disappointed look.. I didn’t have many manners at the time and decided to wing it. After the splash, her and her sister made their way to the pool side to exit, while her sister yelled “Mom told us not to get our hair wet Crystal!” Her eyes were locked with mine, I felt her pulling me, calling me to her in dispair… Her sister locked on to her arm and pretty much dragged her away into the crowd. I jumped into action, off the tube float, and into the water, hopping on one foot with my arms stretched as if I could somehow reach her faster that way. I exit and enter seek and search mode, my logic kicked in.. I made a grave mistake and almost lost my life to reunite eye contact with her once more. I climbed the highest steps leading to the highest ride at Six Flags.. I said to my child self, if you get up high, you can see everything and maybe even her! Well that didn’t play out how I thought it would.. I was forced down the waterslide by some possessed adults and almost drowned in 20ft of water… They shut six flags down and she left along with everyone else…. Fast forward, I’m traveling to Atlanta to visit family, she’s traveling to New York to play in Carnegie Hall with her high school band. I’m at the Dallas airport, around 17yo now, so she was 15yo, doing well, me not so great, poverished, no father anymore yet he was alive but not for us… Her account of this airport sighting is from her perspective, due to me having on headphones and being blind in one eye temporarily, because I overslept with the ball of my palm at my wrist line pressed against my eye, causing me to miss my flight and receive a 8 hour wait for the next one. I got hungry, angry, my eye hurts, my heart hurts, and I wasn’t too friendly ay that time due to life events. She remembers seeing me, describes what I had on, and told me she thought I wasn’t real and that she was imagining things, but she said “Time… It moved slower” I said hmmm. Sounds about right!.. She replies.. You had Burger King!! Whoa! I said, realizing that yes, I did have Burger King, I stood in that line for half an hour! She was watching me from her silence, hoping that it was and wasn’t me… Fast forward I’m in county jail, with a murderer as my cell mate, a young guy, hard life, bad choices, family non existent, losing his sanity as court dates arrived. This guy was young and full of energy, and loved to talk.. which got annoying but proved to be worth it in the end. He spoke about a girl, she has 3 children, her children’s fathers aren’t around. He talked about her as if he knew her pass and was her future, he talked about getting into fights with her, drinking, doing drugs, and much more! I considered this girl to be very stupid for her to be with and also be pregnant by an idiot like this who just threw his life away because he felt threatened by a teenager. Fast forward after 3 months in the county, it was time for my transportation to prison, after 6 months in prison I was a free and rewired adult and citizen. I felt a new compassion for the world and those in it, but this guy stayed on my mind. Did he get off? Did he get life in prison? Did he ever get a visit from this girl that he talked about constantly? Fast forward I am on my way to visit him, to see how he was doing mentally and he happened to have a lot to say in our 45 minute session. He ended with a plea for me to call his Lawyer and contact this girl, well believe it or not somehow his Lawyer was standing right behind me with his back turned in some strange synchronization. The Guy, “Sosa” gave me his email and said my girl name is Shay, but it will say Leshay on her Facebook profile, tell her to come see me. I said ok I will, and left him and his lawyer to talk. Fast forward it’s been about a year, I never called her because it didn’t feel right calling someone’s girlfriend. I was moving, new place, old place was outgrown, I come across her Facebook written down. Hmmm… Let me call and ask her how her kids are doing and if she has heard anything about “Sosa’s” case. I dial her, she responds on Facebook messenger that she doesn’t have a phone. I say ok that’s fine, how is everything with the kids and “Sosa”? She replies, “They gave him life plus 30 years” I was shocked… All of the praying and Bible reading and going over his case, was for nought, somehow, karma took the reigns.She invited me to her mother’s place, so I went over there to see her and her kids and “Sosa’s” new born baby. We talked until sunrise, and she cried, rewind, the door opened, my heart stopped, she smiled and said hey.. do I know you? I said weird… Fast forward, At this time I have found out from her that she has been literally living across the from me and crossing my path on numerous occasions! Wow I said, I remember but I don’t remember at the same time, because at that time I was on drugs and not sober minded. But my Soul remembers! My memories started to fade from light to darkness, I started to remember too much! Child hood fears, childhood feelings, overall dark childhood issues that were suppressed deeply. We have been homeless together, argued, loved, grew, changed, worked together, cooked together, meditated together, cried together, tries to commit suicide together, questioned reality, together said the same thing together(Knock on wood), Thought “Hey stay out of my mind!” together, we have walked for hours upon hours together, been caught in the pouring rain together, struggled together, succeeded together, failed together, shared our darkest secrets and most painful experiences together, from witnessing morder, to rape and being set up and left for dead, and after all that we are still together and we are the best versions of ourselves balancing both our inner Chaos and Order, we seek enlightenment together and do spells together in positivity. The weirdest thing is our hair is the exact same texture Lol and color, she is my reflection, some think we are related, and we look exactly like the statues of Amun Ra and Amunet his love. I have a picture comparison that is uncanny! Now she is in school to be a real estate broker and I am too. Our goal is to own and rule land as diplomatic Sovereign deities, bringing Order back into the realms of Chaos. My birthday is 12-13-1990 Hers is 12-20-1992 both = 8 for infinity and Sagittarius.

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    As long as you pray and believe in magic, it will never happen. It is TRUTH, LOVE, and HARMONY you are seeking.Pray for that.

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    I have recently found my twin flame, it started as a regular relationship but we were convinced we have met before (in this life and others) we are closely connected.
    We went through some (minor compared to past relationships) issues and miss communications, but we are honest with each other and talk through things.
    As time has passed our connection has only got stronger and more intense, not calmed down.
    We feel like a part of us is missing when we are apart and meeting after a few days apart is so intense energy wise we can’t talk for several minutes.
    This relationship doesn’t compare to anything I have ever experienced and I am sure I have found my twin ♥️

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    I think sometimes the most beautiful things and people have come to me when I stopped trying to find or label things but to just be fully there and not wanting something to happen because then my perspective changes and it makes me believe things that are not true. I think if a twin flame is a flame and you meet them you just simply know if there is a doubt it could be that he is not or maybe your egoic stories or fears are clouding your pure intuition. Either way a twin flame or any type of important relationship isn’t there to complete you or take that deep sadness of not feeling whole away it is there to amplify you. To amplify your spiritual energy but also shed light and expose your conditioning and beliefs that Hold you back. All so you can be on your journey to realize you are whole and complete and always part of th greater one-ness. And twin flame or not if you open your eyes and mind and heart and soul more, those same type of spiritual practices can occur with everyday people in your lives. That is what I believe from my own experiences, they definitely don’t have to be the only truths but these are my best truths I’ve found so far. I hope they may be helpful if not thats ok too, it just means you have your own truths to find do your own exploring and testing.

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    This site sounds more elaborate and realistic than some of the Twin Flame stages I have read recently online trying
    to get some input about my current experiences.Twin Flames definitely are no party and it hurts like hell, to experience all this. Though I feel most connected with my Twin at night. I think this is mainly because I have always been an night owl, and because, there seems to be a “soulful connection” I am able to pick up on that is twice as strong at night than it is during the day. Meditating also comes easier.
    Many may comment after this, reassuring me that I have indeed “not” have met my twin yet in any realm or that I am not “Merged” completely with them because well, we have not met in the physical yet. The problem is, that I know this person is and always have, except, their identity has only come to light to me just in the last year or so. I have mistaken them for a guardian angel when I was much younger before my teenage years, and then just recently, I felt a heavy transformation that is still happening, but really started almost three years ago and came on strong. When everything was quieting down, I felt my heart chakra opening up, and my whole body was going into this sort of “soul gasm” sort of frequency, something I could not put my finger on, but I have not felt since well forever, but I knew was familiar. Then, about 2 weeks later, I felt a massive “shift” and he came around to my town, and I could feel he was close, but I did not get the chance to “reunite” in the flesh for the first time yet. I know what he looks like as I have seen his indentity in my dreams for many years. As we were close to meeting we never did. Is there a reason for this? I know I was not completely in the best zone nor situation in my life, which gave me a whole lot of unwanted “fear” and I am wondering if this is the prime reason we never got to meet yet? Is he not ready yet either? I know it is him because of that intuitive “knowing” the peace I feel when I just think of him, and the flashes I continue to have spontaneously of us having these discussions that only lasta few seconds at a time, but are so real I can touch them and breathe them. Undeniable feeling of knowing. <3

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    I did meet my soulmate.. I wholeheartedly believed it and still do so.. unconditional affection, inspiring you to be a better person, seeking enlightenment together, communication understood without much words. Now I doubt if the other person considered so, as the fugitive thoughts have taken over and are being apart now.. how even one row has set things apart.. I guess we are in our own phase of emotional maturity though both are sure emotionally mature individually.. this phase has its own imbalances and thoughts to let the soul free and find its path to light with hope to reunite.

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    I reconnected with someone I knew from childhood. Our Mom’s have been friends for 25+ years. Well they moved out of state and drifted apart. I saw him as a someone you might know on social media. I ignored it a few times but kept getting drawn to send him a message.
    We text for quite some time and had a couple conversations on the phone. We really connected and were working on likes dislikes etc. He served in the military and was in a bad motorcycle accident resulting in a traumatic brain injury. This plays a key role in everything because ptsd and a TBI really impact your life. He let me know certain things that you could say are unacceptable and are triggers. Well our bond continued and grew even stronger. I went to see him about a month ago. The first day was great we talked I helped him with a few projects. We really hit it off. I know now he isn’t much for affection… but I have him a hug and we started kissing. One thing lead to another and we got a little handsie… never went past that but still a no no for both of our standards. We wanted to build and get to know each other before sexual intimacy. Well his demeanor changed but we still talked throughout the weekend. He became easily irritated and let his temper show. Come the morning I was leaving he was busy so I was just waiting to say bye. He said something along the lines of don’t you have somewhere to be/go? Now I’m not a sensitive person but I felt the lump in my throat and tears stinging my eye’s so I just grabbed my stuff and walked out. Realizing I overreacted I asked him if I could get a hug so we hugged and kissed… It felt so right! He even made the comment how he is not usually affectionate like this and he doesn’t even hug his mom… This has to do with the TBI. Please read up on someone who suffers from ptsd and a TBI it’s too much to write. So I left and it was like communication really went down a lot. I took all factors into consideration but eventually sent the dreaded your silence says it all which got a response. We would talk here and there but of course conversations faltered again. I asked him if we’d ever talk like we used to and he said we never used to talk. I tried to discuss it with him but he said I’d never hear from him again. That was 2 weeks ago and not a single word! It is so hard

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    Hi, I’ve never been the one to comment on things like these but thought why not, let’s try it out. Well, I accidentally literally bumped into the person I now believe is my twin flame. Weirdest thing ever because it felt as if I had already knew her. It was just a feeling that I got. Well, we lasted for about a year, it was a good relationship up until I went back into school, which made me go part time for work, which slowed alot of our future plans down. That’s when we split. It wasn’t even an agreement, we had one small disagreement, she left for work and didn’t come back. We did talk, she wanted time to think, and then we eventually split. When things get tough for her, she gets overwhelmed and she runs. Plus, she was also dealing with her own things as well. Anyways, 2 months after we split she popped up just to see me. She told me she doesn’t know why but its hard to forget me, as likewise for me. She left again and 2 months later she came around again. I gave in and we got touchy and after that she disappeared again. It’s been some months now since I’ve heard from her but there’s not a day that goes by without having her on my mind or even these weird feelings. It’s more like an intuition, it’s quite hard to describe but I’ll try my best. It’s as if I can sense her, feel her. Sometimes, I can feel shes not ok. Til this day, I try to forget her, not sense her and move on with my day. I try to focus on my classes and still, she manages to make her way to me. It’s so frustrating and the weird thing is that I’ve never been like this before with anyone else. Not my ex whom I’ve been with for 5 yrs, not anyone, and here I am with someone I’ve been with for 1 year. 1 year! Also, I deactivated all of my social medias, Facebook, Instagram, more so I can focus on my classes but also to avoid her. Out of sight out of mind or so I thought. Even today she still has my sister n law on the Facebook and my best friend on her snap and Facebook. Now, I still have some people from my ex of 5 yrs on my Facebook but common sense. The way things ended were not on a good note. Therefore, you wouldn’t still have my family member or best friend on your social media. To back up a bit to when she came around after 2 months from the break up, she did ask questions as to why I’m not on social media because she’s been looking for me. Also, she’s stated that she has seen pictures of me in class and was trying to locate my school I guess from the logo that was on my shirt. Stalker much, but I dig it. Lol. So to me, she has them on there to see what I’m doing if they ever were to post any pictures up of me. Just yesterday I went to get some breakfast at a spot where we used to go. I figured it’ll be ok, until I entered the area and the restaurant. I was overwhelmed by a strong sense. I became nervous and shaky, it was like a whirlwind…in my body. Crazy. The feeling was just so strong, it drained me a bit.
    Anyways, I didn’t know anything about twin flames until my friend told me so and so here I am writing to you.

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    I may or may not have met mine. I was 16 years old. (I’m 20 now). I remember a few months before I met him I had a dream. I still can recount it too. It was a romantic dream about a guy but I couldn’t see his face. When I woke up this name was in my head. So I wrote it down. When I started school I was a loner. No friends or anything. But I was always subconsciously looking for someone.

    One day, the class went to a computer lab and I was sitting off by myself. Then the teacher told this guy to sit next to me. He sat down and after silence, started to talk to me. When we talked for a minute I asked him his name. The name I thought he said sounded like the one from my dream. Then he said it louder. It wasn’t the same name but it could easily be mistaken for the one I wrote down if you said it fast. From that point on everything is a blur but the ones I remember felt like a dream. We bonded quickly and we thought almost exactly alike. Sometimes said things at the same time. I just understood him. I felt like he understood me too. When I asked him his birthday I was surprised to find out he was born on my favorite day besides my birthday. (Side note: when I was little I used make up things for fun and I decided that I needed a second favorite day of the year besides my birthday and a holiday, so I chose a day that sounded good) I was surprised to find out that my favorite person was born on my favorite day. Well as quick as we bonded it ended. The more I felt the harder it got between us. We started to argue and push each other’s buttons. Mostly him pushing mine. I tried to understand him. The more I tried the more he distanced himself. Aside from all the arguments and things I still couldn’t shake him. I couldn’t leave him alone. But eventually I had to. We are now separated living in different cities but I’ve grown since. I even see the 11:11, 1:11 and 12:34 everywhere and now I have to move to his city to finish school. Who knows…

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    Will this ever get any better or easier?
    Me and my twin are at this stage in our relationship where stuff from our past keeps popping up and we have to work through that together. And we do and we get stronger every step of the way.
    It feels like we take two steps forward and one step back.
    I’m trying to find some strenght in this post. I want to believe we will make it and we will come to this place of surrender.

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      I know what you’re going through. Been there. It is a rough time and a lot of things are said and a lot of feelings get hurt. Talk to each other. Try everything you can to get to the bottom of each of your insecurities. Don’t make the same mistake I did and not let things out. That will ruin both of you. I lost my twin flame because I held onto things and just couldn’t let go. It is a hard time but if you two can completely be honest and get everything out in the open it will make everything else between you even stronger. Best of luck and I hope you get through it better then I did. You don’t want to lose what you have. It is truly remarkable.

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    I think I have met my twin flame. The first time he kissed me, I literally felt a flame in my heart. I described it as a pilot light. He is twenty-seven years younger than myself and this is a source of crisis for us. Also, his family is very dysfunctional and controlling. He has been pushing and pulling me back and forth for three months. I know I need to give him time. The initial heartache at his tendency to pull me towards him and then run is becoming less as I understand that he needs time to grow. He is twenty-one and I forty-eight. I feel our age difference is a blessing. He has youth and energy while I am experienced in life and love. I do not look my age, by the way! We are both dancers and in excellent shape. We both care about the world and want to make positive change in it. All the stages and “symptoms” of twin flame love are there! It is amazing to read these articles and understand what is happening. It is precisely the stages described. I know he and I will do wonderful things in the world together and experience a love that is amazing. I just don’t know when. I am facing the loss of my father and am afraid that if he continues to push me away, I will have a difficult time trusting and returning to him in my pain and sorrow. This would be a shame. In my life, I have known many loves and even a husband with whom I have a lovely daughter. But i have NEVER known a connection like this. I’m certain it is my twin flame. I guess we both need more time!

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    My mind is completely blown. I never believed in anything like this till one night after we split she asked me if I ever read the definition of a soulmate. The next day I looked it up and came across what was called a “Twin Flames”. So I read it. And it is exactly what we went through. Thought this is crazy. I’m just emotional. I don’t think that now. We’ve gone through every stage in this to a tee. We would be on the Fugitive Thoughts stage. Now I don’t think there’s ever a chance of us coming back together or at least it definitely feels that way. It’s actually really freaky though. I am positive that I met my twin flame and missed the opportunity.

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    I met my twin flame of feb 2018. Everything in this article I completely resonate with. There was a magnetic attraction between us. I being a male was so intrigued by what the universe had presented me. I was so interested in her but it was beyond sexual. It was on a soul level, which she often reminded me of whilst we were together, as if she knew how hollow I was inside, disembodied, disassociated. It was simply a magical experience. Within 4-5 hours of meeting we was having a shower together, intwined in each other’s auras. Points of silent communication, body language and sensing was demonstrated by both. Understanding what the other person needed without actually saying a word.

    I a Piscean, her a Scorpio I wanted to check my horoscope to see the compatibility, but didn’t check thinking it would jinx our encounter, which I later after travelling back to the UK found I was most compatible with. Meanwhile previously, I had completely blocked myself off from any metaphysical or spiritual connection with myself, astrology, dna, haplogroups, chakra energetic centres. I was literally completely ignorant.

    We met in California San Francisco. I later found out that the earths root chakra is in that region, her being a Scorpio also predominantly identified with the root chakra, may be the reason how I became more rooted within my being and shedded off all excess thoughts, emotions, friends, beliefs and idolons that were no longer serving me.

    Not only that, her being African American and me being UK born but from Ghana west Africa. She told me she done a dna test to trace her ancestry and found out she was from the Togo region west Africa which is the same region I was from, a neighbouring country or border.

    Since I had my meeting with mirror self, I have had a major energetic shift. Became vegan for 6 months, was able to run a marathon a week, felt my aura spinning fast, had a kundalini awakening, still going through energetic shifts a year later, feeling my third eye centre growing.

    I have devoted huge amounts of time to understanding my body, the nature of reality and have completely moved into a more expanded state of consciousness.

    A common theme about twin flames is that you always have a “runner” which can be brought about by many reasons. I was not the runner but that encounter after 4 days of being together has left a lasting spike on my dna. I have not heard from her for 8 months. But since we live in a quantum universe, and I now understand the reincarnation cycles, and different mechanics on how the reality works, I’m confident that we will meet again as we progress towards the age of ether.

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      What age can your twin flame be? Does it matter what age they are if they a decade younger than you?

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        Sure no worry mine is 13 years younger and we’re 100% a genuine TF couple.. We experienced step by step every described aspect starting with the swans at the very beginning and so on.. 🔥🔥
        Namaste 🙏😊

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    The problem with this article is that it describes a twin flame relationship but suggests it culminates in a soul mate relationship.

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      LOL so true I just thought the same 😂

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    I don’t know this article the nail on the head kind of spooky but you know what puts a smile on my face because the Twin Flame I believe I’m with now is an everlasting we have split up so many times Patrol me bonkers lots of ego lots of push pole lots of research trying to figure out what’s what I’ll call you right now 9 once I wasn’t with her I had the hardest time in my life I felt that piece but I guess it was to rejuvenate this relationship and being away from her I cannot even look at another or be with another before never even crossed my mind I kept to myself and that was it. Now that we are back together we’re both on a spiritual journey with church and doing things that preachers of God telling us to do it’s funny cuz she teaches me and I teach our this is insanity. When I look at her picture I just smile and say to myself oh my God you’re my twin flame this is who I’m supposed to be with this is insanity this is awesome but yes the relationship is very strenuous on the both of us best of luck to everybody out there try to be positive because these twin flames that were with we’re supposed to be with

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    Laura Gonzalez

    We are in the frustration stage. His ego is in the way. The last time we were together we both felt the strongest connection we had ever felt before. He is fighting the emotions and is letting his ego get in the way. There has already been one separation where he married someone else. That lasted only 8 months. We reunited, where he reached out to me and now, silence. I feel lost without him but I have to be true to myself and my heart. I can’t endure another heartache like I did before with him. He’ll return to me, I just have to be patient. I want to help him but he won’t let me in. And I can’t force it.

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    I met my twin back in the summer of 2007 or 2008… I can’t quite remember. Actually, I first met him even further back when we were children, also during the summer but nothing happened then (with me) since he liked my friend. I do remember noting being drawn to this boy though, and how weird that was since kids cut through our school all the time, or would come play on our basketball court (which is what he would do) and I never paid them any mind. I must have only been 8 at the time.

    Come 2007-iah

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    Oops, accidently hit post comment.

    Come 2007-ish, I was in summer school with a few old friends and were hanging out at lunch. He casually mentioned that he had a friend move in with him, and said *just* his first name which is an extremely common name. I vividly remember *instantly* perking up and being like “Wait, what?! What’s his last name?”

    It was him.

    I was so giddy. SO giddy. I hadn’t thought of him like, at all for about ten years at that point, but I could barely contain myself with the news. It was so weird, but I never once questioned it. I really don’t know why or how we started hanging out (we were in two completely different leagues–I was NOT the type of girl that that type of guy hangs out with. Cliché, I know) but we eventually did.

    It was so innocent at first. We’d meet up, sit on a particular bench and look at a fountain that wasn’t running anymore, talking… just talking. We met up at night–always at night–and he always walked me home. Over time, we started just sitting on the steps to the front door at my mom’s house. Then, I think it was him who suggested that we should go stargazing, so I suggested a small, nearby “field” next to a small tree. That became our spot–the tree. To this day, a cool Summer night never fails to take me right back to those benches, the steps, the tree; with the cool air between us, our skin itching in the grass, stars shining in the sky. It always makes my heart ache, but it feels so damn good.

    We began seeing each other almost every night. Then we started hanging out in the afternoons. Then in the early afternoons we’d have lunch or something, split for a while, and then meet back up in the evening to go to our spots together. He was (and is, in my heart) my absolute best friend. He was the spark that ignited my spiritual journey and let me tell you, it definitely hit me like a truck. Yoga, meditation, astrology, tarot; I still turn to the tarot to this day when I feel lost–the same cards from my time together with my twin.

    Then, it sounds like we hit the “testing” phase. To make a long story short, that ended in a forced separation in 2010/2011 that just absolutely ruined me. I was always so scared; about and of him, or whatever guy I was dating at the time, or work, or people in general, or of being alone.

    I must have somwhow reached a point (very, very, very recently) where I could take the negative feelings and (and I can say only this in hindsight) turned them into an impossibly deep, hopeless feeling of missing him to my very core in a good way, if that makes sense. Oh God, it hurt so much. I remember thinking “I really have to go to sleep and wake up every day for the rest of my life knowing that there’s no chance I can ever see him again?”

    Everything negative that the relationship instilled in me disappeared, melted… and I cried. I just… cried.

    See… my twin took his own life in December 2017. At the time, I felt shocked and lots of other things, but mostly confused? Like… “what? He’s gone? But… What?” I couldn’t process it. I didn’t shed a single tear and never questioned it due to the nature of our fallout. After the last couple of days, I firmly believe that I must have subconsciously stuffed down those feelings because I would not have been able to handle it right at that moment in time. I now also believe that that was him shedding his ego.

    I also attempted to take my own life in July 2018 for unrelated reasons (I didn’t actually realize how close to my twin’s suicide until writing this out… it’s kinda weird), and although I wasn’t even close to being successful (thankfully), it shook me to my core and got the gears moving for the next and most recent phase of change in my life. I don’t exactly know how to explain or label it yet, but that’s how I stumbled onto this page, by feeling the pull to nurture my spiritual side again… so here I am.

    Thank you for taking the time to read it if you did. Even if no one does, I’m just happy to share a little bit about my twin and me. It makes sense that I would begin my spiritual journey again by looking into things that make me feel close to him… 🙂

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      Thank you for sharing

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    Naaria… I’m so glad you have found your way here. This world can be challenging to say the least.. and there are no words that I or anyone can say to make the pain go away.. just know you have everything you need inside of you to handle whatever comes your way. Live in the moment, live in the now… it’s where life is. All the best.. ❤️

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      Thank you Fox, that’s so sweet of you. ❤️

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    Gregory Moss

    I didn’t know about twin souls before I met mine. I can’t describe hell overpowering it is. 20 yr age differance is irrelevant . Having know her less than a mo. there is now an Emptiness that I never knew existed . obviously I have no control over it and trust in the Devine to reunite us .

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    I met my twin flame 19 years ago he has ran away 4 times because he said I scare him he has been with this other girl for awhile but that’s ok because I feel him and I see 1s and sometimes my body just aches for him !! I dont discuss it with many people cause I hear oh get over it!! Yea easy for them to say because obviously they haven’t met theirs ita like a internal hook hes a make version of me and our love making took me to heights and pleasure that are out of this world..13 years now and it’s as strong as the minute he ran off again

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    Hi there, I met my twin flame many years ago, like 36 years to be exact, we were at the same college, the attraction was instant like a pull towards each other that couldn’t be controlled. But then he kissed me and it scared the hell out of me it was so passionate so intense, I felt I needed to run and I did, since then we have had off and off again contact. We are both with different life partners . This destroys me, I’d do anything to be with him and I feel he would too only we both have families. I tell myself in my mind our time will come. I feel him all the time, his happiness and his pains in life. Does anyone else experience pain like this? Will we ever be together?

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      As the runner, your place in the relationship is to accept that you did run from the love of your twin, as you have. After this, it is best to accept that you are not going to be truly happy without him. If staying with a karmic partner is more important to you than having your one true love, by all means stay where you are. However, if you truly love your twin as you say you do, accept that staying with your karmic partner is never going to being you true happiness. You deserve to have your one true love by your side. Don’t live the rest of your life in regret. Resolve within yourself how you can most respectfully separate from your karmic, and really think through it. Once you know your twin and have the heart awakening, any other love is superficial. You do not love your karmic like you do your twin, and it is time to let go of karmic love and embrace true love. All twins are beginning to accept this. Runners have such a large responsibility to accept that their chaser counterpart cannot make them return. He could wait the rest of his life just for one more chance. If you open up to him and tell him you want to be with him, get his honest feedback. If he wants to leave his karmic situation, and you find in doing so, be prepared for the Rocky situation ahead. No one ever had true love without many obstacles. True Love is something you have to fight for until the very end. It will not come easy, and it will not come without sacrifice. I have learned that completely. I hope this has helped. Explore all your options before committing, however, you have accepted your true feelings. Consider what you will lose to do this, but also consider what you will never have if you don’t. The clock is ticking. Please don’t wait too long. Regrets are not worth having in life. Your chaser deserves to have you all to himself. Thank you for sharing. I know the twin flame pain as good as anyone. I hope this helped you. I wish you the very best and hope you make the right decision.

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    ✨Donnie ✨

    I met my twin flame this year on Valentine’s Day. I saw signs like 1111,333,222,444 etc. like crazy maybe a year prior to our meeting. I got out of the military and moved back to Texas for the first time in like 8 years. I noticed on my license plate it had the number 1911 on it. Prior to moving I was obsessed with getting 1911 pistol like out of nowhere, which I eventually got but anyways back to the story.

    I got out of the military, and got a job working for spectrum as a field tech. Which entails me to go to peoples houses to install or fix cable services. This one fine day I was sent to 1911 serene valley. Yes. I even remember the street we met at. Anyways. I arrived at the house and her grandmas friend invited me in. Right off the bat, I see a big picture of her across the living room. I pay no mind at first, I just thought wow who’s that I close the door. I met her after her grandma called and asked to come over since she’s the one who made the order. Throughout the job I constantly passed in front of the big picture of her and met eyes with her every time. I was DRAWN to her picture. Never really experienced A feeling like that.

    She comes over, we meet on the front lawn and it’s like almost an instant magnetic attraction. I remember feeling the feel of being pulled from my stomach to her. It was so strange I never felt that before. We both confirmed the feelings as well as our birthday and yes we have the same birthday too. All I thought was I have to hold her at least. Over and over again. It felt crazy.

    So after coming back and forth from the day care she worked at which was literally next door to the house I tell her to follow me. She does. No questions no nothing. We go in the backyard and I close the side gate. I say this first kiss will tell me everything I need to know. Ok. She says, and then we kiss. I felt like I was home from like a very long journey and she was waiting for me when she kissed me.

    But currently we aren’t talking. Haven’t talked for a few months now. It’s the longest we’ve gone so far. It used be on and off Communication. The pain of not being with her used to be unbearable but as I matured emotionally it subsided a good amount. I still think of her everyday. I just don’t dwell on her like I used to. Of course there are things I left out but this would be too long of a post. But yep. She’s my twin flame. And one day since it’s what the universe wants we will be together. And day by day I’m losing the feeling of “maybe I’ll lose her and she’ll never return” vibe. It’s simply not true. And I’m surrendering everyday to universe.

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    I had been going through some pretty hard stuff, and needless to say I was with some friends at a local restaurant when I was overcome with some horrible grief, so I fled to the safety of my car so as not to let the world know I was bawling my eyes out. As I was about to leave, this lovely man ran up to my car and looked me right in the eyes and asked me if I was ok, and wanted to know what was wrong. I just remember looking at this, for the most part, stranger with the most striking blue eyes. How could someone who really didn’t know me very well show me such compassion.

    It was a whirlwind of an affair, a connection that neither one of us could deny. Both of us loved the same music, came from the same familial background, had the same ideals, and moral compass. But he was a man carrying the burden of many hurts and karmic pain running away from a failed marriage to the wrong person, a young child in tow and a spirit that was almost completely crushed from the burden of it all. As he tells me today at the time he was just a hollowed out soul whose fire was almost put out he was just barely surviving for his son’s sake.

    I felt it in my bones that I was the chaser here for my twin who was running as fast as he could from everyone and everything into a sad oblivion. This man told me every day what a terrible person he was, and how it would be best if someone as angelic and wonderful as me should turn and run from such a piece of excrement as himself, but at the same time he was reaching for me. I remember these times because I felt like a sweet nurse watching her charge do battle within themselves. I also knew that nothing that I wanted from this potential “us” could be forced. That the only thing I could do for him was to be a rock, steadfast and true, and just be present, and take one day at a time. And ultimately it wasn’t about what I wanted, it wasn’t about wants it was just that I was there and our two spirits were leading each other home and that we were there and in it together.

    We had a blast getting to know each other, I kept on seeing glimmers of the real person behind the closed doors of his soul and it was like a sweet almost divine nectar. And of course as things were getting better the whole world fell apart.

    Along with everything else that was happening within the beginning of our relationship, he lost his job, his car broke down, and he lost his home. It was so sudden, and here we found ourselves, looking into each others eyes, and I knew that I was going to get him through this no matter what. Accepting help and kindness was very difficult. He spent most of his time battling his inner demons, I found that our communication was very abrupt and not as loving as it had been, and on occasion his hatred of himself would bleed out onto me. It was one of the most challenging two years of my life.

    Through endless patience, love and understanding I kept on being a rock, steadfast and true. I gave him a safe place to stand back up again. He tells me all the time that he has no clue where I came from, “I prayed to God to save me from myself and to lead me back to the light and suddenly you were there”. Mind you I never felt used, and never was used he was always working so hard to get back on track, and every day he did take one more step, and then it was overnight after it felt like we couldn’t bear it anymore everything he had been looking for fell into his lap.

    As abundance returned into his life, we both realized that we had seen the best and the worst of each other, we had been through the toughest of times together, and we began to really see each other. His past wasn’t clouding the love he began to shower on me. His distrust of relationships and women and anything else that had been holding him back from truly seeing me for me began to melt. It was like a massive raw wound healed up and was closing up covered in gold. He was also finally able to open up to my love, and let himself be surrounded by my own adoration we both acknowledged that this love was like no other, and was definitely divine we truly began to commit to one another.

    Then there was another curve ball, as he was finding himself and we each other, I began to lose myself. I found myself in a deep depression like no other. I felt a call to leave the state, to go back to my roots. I felt that I had to go home to heal old hurts and to dust out my own demons. I knew that if I didn’t take care of myself first, and tie up some loose ends and heal my own wounds and do away with this terrible “what if” that was looming closer each day that we could never be truly united and enjoy this love we had together.

    It has been a year and some months ago today that we held each other and cried onto each others shoulders when I told him I had to leave. He told me that I was ever so brave, and that he was my biggest fan, and that it will hurt like hell to be separated, but we both knew that we couldn’t have the dream unless our cups were full.

    So I left. We have been visiting each other often.

    We have come to love each other in a way that I really can’t describe. It goes beyond romantic love. Being in his presence feels like pure bliss. We see each other here and there, and it seems that the distance has only made our bond even stronger, our minds are even closer, are hearts are united in our dedication to one another. Now that I am finally taking control of my own life, and finding my own purpose and tying up these loose ends it is almost time to go back to him. I can feel the karmic sigh of relief. I am so proud of myself for choosing to take care of myself first, because if I hadn’t none of this could have ever happened.

    He is my forever partner my twin. We have been through it all, but this never would have been possible without compassion and the understanding that sometimes we just can’t have what we want right away unless we ourselves are ready to receive do that self work and share from a full cup. Just taking everything one day at a time and always striving to better ourselves, and always being hopeful and carrying the light in our hearts.

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    Omg guys. I met my twin flame when I was 14 and he was 15 (almost 16), I was so young. I’m 19 atm and he’s 21. (I’ll be 20 soon) I was the runner and we would switch sometimes. I don’t wanna get into it but atm he’s dating someone else. I used to too but I broke it off and I’m focusing on myself. I really miss him and my heart hurts at the distance between us, but I want him to be happy. If his happiness lies with me, he’ll come back. My arms are open wide and I will wait forever. Other than that I trust in him and the universe and I know that we’ll be okay. Nothing can keep us apart, if it could, I wouldn’t have stopped running. Once I make up my mind to do something, I won’t stop for anything. So if I changed my mind because of him, that means we belong together. I adore him and I really really really don’t want to live without him.

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    Waited my whole life for her only to find that she hadn’t waited for me.
    She was already married with a child.
    So the very same joyous instant that I found her was the very same instant I was forced to tear myself physically away.
    I still kept my heart open with infinite love for her while forced to shut off my want of physical connection to her down as it was too painful to be pulled to someone whom I could not be with.
    It was pointless even to ask the name or address of someone whom I knew I could not physically be with.
    My dream coming true of finding her.
    Our coming so so very close to reunion by our becoming emotionally and spiritually One but not as physically One with each other.
    The last time we were together she motioned her head for me to break my telepathic TWINFLAME connection to her.
    I just smiled back at her as I knew and sensed our TWINFLAME connection was permanent and unbreakable.
    I had hoped and planned before we were forever separated to explain everything about our TWINFLAME connection (and maybe give her my contact email address incase she ever needed to urgently get in touch) but we were parted before I had the chance.
    It’s now been over 15 years and despite the fact that our magnetic pull has increased infinitely we still have no Earthly way to contact each other.
    Since we were parted I have continued pushing full steam ahead to learn her side of our connection and have alone succeeded in breaking through into our joint TWINFLAME power which increases daily to never again lessen as I push through on our joint behalf into ENLIGHTENMENT and our hopefully soon ASCENSION which I am doubly sure she can fully sense feel and too welcomes and is in agreement with.
    I hope and pray that she is DIVINELY steered here to recognise herself in this post and to respond below.
    I’d hate for us both to die without our ever at least once getting in touch.

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    I guess I’ll put this here because I don’t know how to explain this situation/ connection well to anyone without sounding like a crazy person & I’m feeling so confused & helpless today.

    I met this guy early 2004 when we were in the military. We were drawn to eachother instantly, became best friends, inseparable at work for the next couple yrs, all while hiding our feelings from eachother. We talked about everything (except our feelings), kept eachother’s secrets, looked after & stuck up for one another, made a heck of a work team & always knew where the other was if we weren’t together. There was always a balance between us even though we’re so different. Almost as though we naturally brought out just the right amount of whatever was needed in eachother. Apparently everyone around us sensed it was there, but I know I denied it to keep my own feelings a secret. Not only were we both in relationships with other ppl, but neither wanted to ruin our friendship & scare the other off. I even tried to tell myself that my attraction was just muddled feelings because we were so close, but deep down I knew I was in love with him. The way we lit up together & the feeling of just being near him is something I’ve always missed terribly.

    I ended up being transferred for medical reasons… watching him walk away that last time felt like watching as part of my soul was ripped from my body. To this day, my biggest regret when we hugged goodbye was not telling him I loved him right then. My insides were screaming to though. I cried for weeks after & never was able to let go of how much I longed for him. We still kept in some form of communication over the yrs & my heart would jump excitedly everytime I’d get a msg, email or see a new pic he posted.

    2012, he confessed to having feelings for me. Everything I had secretly felt, he described & the same memories that I cherished, he was bringing up. Unfortunately, he had just gone through a divorce & my long term boyfriend (the same ppl we were with when we met) & I were wks away from separating because of relationship issues. We didn’t pursue eachother, but the conversation flowed stronger for a bit until he got into another relationship & it went to the occasional “hey, still thinking of/ missing you” from one or the other.

    Fast forward a bit, my ex & I had finally split for good after yrs of abuse & the guy went through some long legal issues from past nonsense. I didn’t hear from him for almost 2 yrs during all this.

    Dec 2019 (last month as I write this), he pops up again, but now we’re diving headfirst into the conversation. Flowing like before, but more open than ever. I felt renewed like a fire had been lit inside me & a couple friends even mentioned that I was “glowing”. After a week, he told me he wanted to try a long distance relationship & I agreed. I had completely written off relationships to focus on healing myself, but this was HIM. It felt safe & even though it was a little rushed, right to try. We set a date to meet a couple months out & talked in some form near constantly to the point of losing sleep because we’d lose track of time so easily. It was only a few wks, but it felt like we’ve been talking again for months. A few days ago, he got a little distant. Yesterday, Jan 1st, I sent him a msg asking what was up & he eventually replied saying the distance was harder than he expected it would be. All day before he said it, I knew what was coming & couldn’t stop crying. I’d get dizzy, heavy & tingly all over & felt like my heart was spinning like a tilt-o-whirl. I’ve never felt that before. He told me he loved me & always will, felt we jumped into things too soon, doesn’t know what he wants, has to focus on getting his life together, but still hopes we can see eachother later this yr. In all honesty, it hurt, but didn’t feel like a goodbye or like we were ending it. I thanked him for being honest & not ghosting me, not to jump into things in the future if he isn’t certain & that we should just leave our feelings in the past (I very much regret that part because I’ve tried to do that all these yrs & can’t so it didn’t feel honest). I wanted to get mad, make him hate me to try & sever the connection, but instead I tried to hide how much it hurt because I genuinely didn’t want him feeling guilty.

    At first, I felt so stupid, but he’s right. We’re both still working on closing past chapters so, yet again, the timing didn’t line up. What hurts isn’t even the ending of whatever that was (I feel weird calling it a “break up” & we weren’t “dating”… it was like an open declaration of sorts if that makes sense?). It’s that I know I can “let him go” as I always have, but that connected feeling just won’t go away. Like he’ll be haunting my heart forever & there’s nothing I can do to stop it. Everytime I think of him, it feels as though my inner core is trying to pull outward & go somewhere or some part of my limbs tingle. Last night, I thought to myself “It’s finally done, we tried & it’ll never happen” & some inner voice immediately said “no, you’re almost there. Work on yourself so when he comes back again, you’ll be ready.” Is it likely to be a “when” or is it wishful thinking So it doesn’t hurt so much? Why have we been doing this back & forth? Why can’t I just override the “gravity” & make it go away? We get more open about our feelings & closer to solidifying something each time before we back off. Are we just trying to remind eachother that we’re still out there? To test & see if the timing is right yet? If we’re not meant for eachother, why can’t we just be done with it? Ugh, I’m just so full of questions now. I’m not even heartbroken, just confused.

    I know it’s long, but thanks for reading. If anyone has thoughts, I’d love to hear cause this is all making me feel a little crazy.

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    Hi Bubble,

    You are both unbreakably spiritually connected forever and yours hearts will always magnetically pull towards each other forcing you both together.

    What is happening is that you both used to be “as one single spirit” before you were split by GOD and sent down to Earth to be born separately.

    GOD then arranged for you both to meet on Earth and here you are.

    When you both met your souls entered each other’s bodies…

    He has your soul (added to his own).

    You have his soul (added to your own).

    The objective is for you to bring “your soul” and “his soul” which are inside of you – to bring them so close together that they merge as ONE – as how you both used to be before your earthly birth – but you were made to forget that.

    The closer that you squeeze the souls inside you together the closer you get toward them being ONE again. Any work you do of squeezing those two souls together inside of you then it brings the two souls in him automatically together too.

    When the two souls inside of your body finally merge into ONE SOUL then there is a possibility that you may finally be able to be together physically.

    The whole goal is to become as one soul with each other and as one soul with God himself and then spiritually Ascend to be as one spiritually in happiness forever with God.

    Hope this answers your questions. Wish you both well. Every happiness on your journey. Keep learning all you can by reading Twin Flame sites on the net.

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    I think I met him, really.

    It’s magical how magnetic we are.
    We met at work, last year and it was immediately clear in my head at the second we spoke that he was something else.

    We are even magnetic for others around. When we have fun together it’s like everyone else around join us and have fun. When we don’t talk, it’s like everything around is boring and grey…

    At first sight, we kinda both reached for each other but were both in a relationship.

    I knew though that my relationship wasn’t healthy. And a lot was and still is going on in my personnal life. I did split last december but can’t both move out yet so it’s really complicated.

    On his part though, when her girlfriend discovered that we had such complicity she got jaleous and angry and I understand they had a big fight. But he chose her. Asking me to be only colleague.
    He blocked me from EVERY social media. Didn’t come to after hours, even change his work schedule. I feel he tries to not be “tempted” in some way…

    We kind a stop talking to each other then, looking both miserable.

    But I worked hard to get myself together and be happy and then he reached out to me again.
    ….And he stopped talking to me again suddenly. The feelings he tried to push away probably came back.

    We had a Christmas party where we reconnected, even hugged (and that felt so amazing…) he kinda got back into me again. But few days later, after another cold shower from his girlfriend, was back to the “just colleague thing”.

    That time, I was the one who put a big distance though. That was too hurtful.
    Couldn’t keep my cool, I was too sad and felt so humiliated…

    But it is so intense how we are like mirrors, understanding eachother with a glance, the complicity we can have… EVERYTHING. He is me in so much levels… But I feel I learned to respect myself more than he is… is that making sense?

    I truly hope we can be together oneday, I know we could be such a great team in life!

    I’m not sure in which stage we are though…

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    I met this guy in high school during my freshman year and he was a sophomore at the time. I eventually had a crush on him as did he, but we didn’t go out. We eventually became best friends even after we graduated. Our friendship kept developing over the past 10 years. We always remained in contact with one another. My crush for him eventually stopped, but he was still in love with me this whole time.

    Despite that, we both went in and out of relationships, constantly going to each other for advice. We were always there for each other, listening to what the other was saying. The funny part is we never hung out during the 10 years as he was in the Marines doing his service there.

    In 2018, my boyfriend at the time broke up with me and him being my best friend, I asked him to come over to talk to. He came over, which was the first time we last seen each other since high school. We were just talking like nothing ever changed. Then I fell in love with him.

    We eventually got together and became a couple. I was never happier. Then, of course like every couple, we’d fight a lot. After being together for a year and a half, he ended it with me.

    I went to the psychic to get an insight. Apparently, she said that he was in fact both my soulmate and twin flame. When looking it up, I found out the different stages. We had the blissful stage, where we were really happy together. When that passed, all the fighting started to ensue, which is why he broke up with me. Now I’m just waiting for him to come back.

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    I met a man he was so wonderful handsome hardworking goal oriented. I feel his emotions. This is what happened, back in the early 80’s there it snowed busses were shut down on snow schedule. I was on my hone from buying new pair of Nikes I saw him cold at the bus stop. The moment I saw my emotions ran wild I thought yo explore them. So I offered him to come home with me. He accepted. On the bus ride we talked discovered we like each other with a deep connection. We made live a most beautiful connection. Afterwards we drifted apart lives took different directions. I married another he did the same. Now a widow Ihe tells he wants to be with me again and was looking for me. I saw him at my mother’s celebration of life he was trying to talk to me. I felt a rush of emotions ones I never felt before and ran from him. I now live in different state he says come back.. I said it’s complicated now..

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    Twin flames are a curse: its not eternal love which one can enjoy. Our souls, both, figure out that we can have other relationships than the one that hurts like hell and will lead to the worse. I felt mine as he is tired of me from previous lives and just wishes something else. What do you do with that? Nobody has the answer. Wish all this would be made up, but can’t fake it. Honestly just beying real helps so much more than feeling. Thanks for bringing out the topic though.

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      Her Twinflame

      I have zero conflict with my Twin Flame and she has zero conflict with me.
      There is zero running nor chasing.
      We are in perfect eternal love – except that she was already married with a child before we met.
      I love her eternally above all.
      She loves me eternally above all.
      We are both heartbroken that we cannot be together.

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    Freya Wolf

    I met my twin flame 4 years ago. It was fleeting and he was gone. we reconnected but i was in a relationship. As soon as it ended I found myself temporarily living two streets away so I went to see him. It was instant on both sides. we both felt a past life connection.
    Then lockdown happened and I was away at the time so we connected by phone. it was telepathic, dreamtime, astral travel, it was beautiful on every level and we both felt lifted spiritually and we couldn’t wait to see each other. I came back and he went quiet. This made me emotionally text like a desperate mad woman, which then caused him to completely back away.
    I left it a week then messaged again and slowly we seemed to get somewhere, but he was not the same, closed down. His work took over and he completely changed focus. Which left me feeling so alone, so shut down. Every time we would talk about contact he would go quiet. Now he hardly messages and they are one word. He is cold. Yet i can still feel him all the time, I have cried every day. And i keep reminding him I’m still here always.
    I just read your article and it makes complete sense. If there comes a time I will share this with him so he can understand, but he doesn’t see or hear me now. I have been feeling like shutting him out but I know it wont stop it hurting. i know now I found him I cant stop the connection. I have had “the gift” all my life and I dreamt of us all the way back in time to Nefertiti, 15000 years ago we were in love. Its taken a long time to get here. all i want is to be in his arms. So I am going to heed your advice and hold the space for him in spirit, no more words or tears. Belief and patience because I know if you are right and he cones back it will be as beautiful as you say it will be ❤️🤞❤️ thank you 🙏

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