Spirituality

7 Twin Flame Stages You Need to Go through to Reunite with Your Soulmate

Published by
Andreea Vaduva, B.Sc. (Hons)

When we feel attracted to somebody or enter a relationship, we tend to believe that we have met our true love, the soulmate, the twin. However, there are 7 distinguishable twin flame stages that will help you identify the life-changing relationship.

First of all, it is important to define the connection of Twin Souls. This connection is actually an energy bond above all. Twin Souls have the same energy component as their vibrational frequency is exactly the same.

It is believed that originally, the two souls are part of the same sphere of pure energy. After the sphere was divided into two, the two souls were separated for thousands of years, and they took a bit from the energy of others with whom they interacted in every life.

Thus, there are several twin flame stages the two souls should go through in order to reunite again.

Nowadays, we are noticing more and more twin souls relationships as their mission is to reunite and become examples of unconditional love. They are meant to live a healthy and abundant life and, at the same time, help humanity by increasing positive vibrations and create a New Earth based on values, virtues, and love.

But in order to reach the Union, each soul needs to evolve and leave behind the whole accumulated baggage of the thousands of lives and reach the same pure energy that they both had at the beginning. This is where the seven different twin flame stages come into play.

Desiring Each Other

Long before twin souls physically meet one another, they sense each other. They intuitively know that their better half is somewhere in the world. They can feel each other’s vibrations, they may even telepathically communicate and sense each other’s unhappiness or personality traits.

Recognition or the “Wake-up Phase”

Both recognize each other and experience a soulful connection. They feel as if they have met before. Synchronicity events take place in order to create the union, and this when the heart chakra opens, so both souls can merge into third unified energy.

Both souls experience an acceleration of spiritual understanding. Every thought or emotion is well understood without requiring much communication.

Testing

Spiritual awakening temporarily disappears and the ego reinstalls. One or both of the souls try to bring the relationship into the “old model” of love, where the desires of the ego and false beliefs are highlighted. This is when Internal conflicts occur.

The souls attempt to guide one another to what they have been taught to believe as being the true definition of love. As such, they will try to shape or change one another, while they both feel at the same time inspired and overthrown by the power of the union.

Doubts begin to appear, making one or both of them see the dear one in a critical and suspicious way.

The purpose of this phase is to bring to the surface old believes, perhaps learned over time, in order to be eliminated. This way, the twin souls can regain their pure, initial energy.

Crisis

The third one of the twin flame stages is defined by a crisis. It is the phase where they reject egotistical beliefs about love or relationships. Having to give up on the ego or the false identity based on desires and beliefs in order to embrace a higher experience of love can lead to stubbornness and anxiety.

Fear can take the lead by triggering many common dysfunctional emotions.

Despite contradictory perceptions, this phase could be considered a ritual that will cement the existing love and create high levels of consciousness in the energy of the two flames.

Fugitive Thoughts

The accumulated tension between the twin souls can either be beneficial and strengthen the union or can backfire and tear them apart for a while.

This is the twin flame stage where frustrations may appear and a strong desire of ending the union. Perhaps temporary separations or silence may be experienced in order to contemplate the meaning of the union and its chances of survival.

The success of the union is based on the emotional maturity of the involved parties. If one of the partners may still need time to evolve, it may be that rupture of the union will occur, so s/he can then return.

Surrender

At this stage, the twin souls surrender their wishes and desires into the hands of Divinity, with full trust and faith that their union will remain strong. They also realize their mistakes and see their ego as the main obstacle in the path of their complete happiness.

Consequently, they openly discuss their plans and wounds, as they wish to work out through their differences. Therefore, the frequency of compassion returns and remains.

Two Become One

In this stage, the ego dies, and the divine force takes control, leading to a complete spiritual awakening. This is the stage where the twin souls radiate divine love, instead of mere romantic love.

The partners fully abandon their emotions, mind, and spirit in the hands of divinity and subsequently, reach soulful maturity. New creative and healing abilities are being developed, such as forgiveness, flexibility, complicity, passion, and patience.

After all the seven twin flame stages, the two souls being to think and act like one.

Are you one of the lucky souls who has met their twin? If so, please share with us your experience with twin flame stages, and let’s help others identify their soulmate.

References:

  1. https://lonerwolf.com
  2. https://thoughtcatalog.com

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  • Will this ever get any better or easier?
    Me and my twin are at this stage in our relationship where stuff from our past keeps popping up and we have to work through that together. And we do and we get stronger every step of the way.
    It feels like we take two steps forward and one step back.
    I’m trying to find some strenght in this post. I want to believe we will make it and we will come to this place of surrender.

    • I know what you’re going through. Been there. It is a rough time and a lot of things are said and a lot of feelings get hurt. Talk to each other. Try everything you can to get to the bottom of each of your insecurities. Don’t make the same mistake I did and not let things out. That will ruin both of you. I lost my twin flame because I held onto things and just couldn’t let go. It is a hard time but if you two can completely be honest and get everything out in the open it will make everything else between you even stronger. Best of luck and I hope you get through it better then I did. You don’t want to lose what you have. It is truly remarkable.

  • I think I have met my twin flame. The first time he kissed me, I literally felt a flame in my heart. I described it as a pilot light. He is twenty-seven years younger than myself and this is a source of crisis for us. Also, his family is very dysfunctional and controlling. He has been pushing and pulling me back and forth for three months. I know I need to give him time. The initial heartache at his tendency to pull me towards him and then run is becoming less as I understand that he needs time to grow. He is twenty-one and I forty-eight. I feel our age difference is a blessing. He has youth and energy while I am experienced in life and love. I do not look my age, by the way! We are both dancers and in excellent shape. We both care about the world and want to make positive change in it. All the stages and "symptoms" of twin flame love are there! It is amazing to read these articles and understand what is happening. It is precisely the stages described. I know he and I will do wonderful things in the world together and experience a love that is amazing. I just don't know when. I am facing the loss of my father and am afraid that if he continues to push me away, I will have a difficult time trusting and returning to him in my pain and sorrow. This would be a shame. In my life, I have known many loves and even a husband with whom I have a lovely daughter. But i have NEVER known a connection like this. I'm certain it is my twin flame. I guess we both need more time!

  • My mind is completely blown. I never believed in anything like this till one night after we split she asked me if I ever read the definition of a soulmate. The next day I looked it up and came across what was called a “Twin Flames”. So I read it. And it is exactly what we went through. Thought this is crazy. I’m just emotional. I don’t think that now. We’ve gone through every stage in this to a tee. We would be on the Fugitive Thoughts stage. Now I don’t think there’s ever a chance of us coming back together or at least it definitely feels that way. It’s actually really freaky though. I am positive that I met my twin flame and missed the opportunity.

  • I met my twin flame of feb 2018. Everything in this article I completely resonate with. There was a magnetic attraction between us. I being a male was so intrigued by what the universe had presented me. I was so interested in her but it was beyond sexual. It was on a soul level, which she often reminded me of whilst we were together, as if she knew how hollow I was inside, disembodied, disassociated. It was simply a magical experience. Within 4-5 hours of meeting we was having a shower together, intwined in each other’s auras. Points of silent communication, body language and sensing was demonstrated by both. Understanding what the other person needed without actually saying a word.

    A common theme about twin flames is that you always have a “runner” which can be brought about by many reasons. I was not the runner but that encounter after 4 days of being together has left a lasting spike on my dna. I have not heard from her for 8 months. But since we live in a quantum universe, and I now understand the reincarnation cycles, and different mechanics on how the reality works, I’m confident that we will meet again as we progress towards the age of ether.

    • What age can your twin flame be? Does it matter what age they are if they a decade younger than you?

      • Sure no worry mine is 13 years younger and we're 100% a genuine TF couple.. We experienced step by step every described aspect starting with the swans at the very beginning and so on.. 🔥🔥
        Namaste 🙏😊

  • The problem with this article is that it describes a twin flame relationship but suggests it culminates in a soul mate relationship.

Published by
Andreea Vaduva, B.Sc. (Hons)