Spirituality

7 Twin Flame Stages You Need to Go through to Reunite with Your Soulmate

Published by
Andreea Vaduva, B.Sc. (Hons)

When we feel attracted to somebody or enter a relationship, we tend to believe that we have met our true love, the soulmate, the twin. However, there are 7 distinguishable twin flame stages that will help you identify the life-changing relationship.

First of all, it is important to define the connection of Twin Souls. This connection is actually an energy bond above all. Twin Souls have the same energy component as their vibrational frequency is exactly the same.

It is believed that originally, the two souls are part of the same sphere of pure energy. After the sphere was divided into two, the two souls were separated for thousands of years, and they took a bit from the energy of others with whom they interacted in every life.

Thus, there are several twin flame stages the two souls should go through in order to reunite again.

Nowadays, we are noticing more and more twin souls relationships as their mission is to reunite and become examples of unconditional love. They are meant to live a healthy and abundant life and, at the same time, help humanity by increasing positive vibrations and create a New Earth based on values, virtues, and love.

But in order to reach the Union, each soul needs to evolve and leave behind the whole accumulated baggage of the thousands of lives and reach the same pure energy that they both had at the beginning. This is where the seven different twin flame stages come into play.

Desiring Each Other

Long before twin souls physically meet one another, they sense each other. They intuitively know that their better half is somewhere in the world. They can feel each other’s vibrations, they may even telepathically communicate and sense each other’s unhappiness or personality traits.

Recognition or the “Wake-up Phase”

Both recognize each other and experience a soulful connection. They feel as if they have met before. Synchronicity events take place in order to create the union, and this when the heart chakra opens, so both souls can merge into third unified energy.

Both souls experience an acceleration of spiritual understanding. Every thought or emotion is well understood without requiring much communication.

Testing

Spiritual awakening temporarily disappears and the ego reinstalls. One or both of the souls try to bring the relationship into the “old model” of love, where the desires of the ego and false beliefs are highlighted. This is when Internal conflicts occur.

The souls attempt to guide one another to what they have been taught to believe as being the true definition of love. As such, they will try to shape or change one another, while they both feel at the same time inspired and overthrown by the power of the union.

Doubts begin to appear, making one or both of them see the dear one in a critical and suspicious way.

The purpose of this phase is to bring to the surface old believes, perhaps learned over time, in order to be eliminated. This way, the twin souls can regain their pure, initial energy.

Crisis

The third one of the twin flame stages is defined by a crisis. It is the phase where they reject egotistical beliefs about love or relationships. Having to give up on the ego or the false identity based on desires and beliefs in order to embrace a higher experience of love can lead to stubbornness and anxiety.

Fear can take the lead by triggering many common dysfunctional emotions.

Despite contradictory perceptions, this phase could be considered a ritual that will cement the existing love and create high levels of consciousness in the energy of the two flames.

Fugitive Thoughts

The accumulated tension between the twin souls can either be beneficial and strengthen the union or can backfire and tear them apart for a while.

This is the twin flame stage where frustrations may appear and a strong desire of ending the union. Perhaps temporary separations or silence may be experienced in order to contemplate the meaning of the union and its chances of survival.

The success of the union is based on the emotional maturity of the involved parties. If one of the partners may still need time to evolve, it may be that rupture of the union will occur, so s/he can then return.

Surrender

At this stage, the twin souls surrender their wishes and desires into the hands of Divinity, with full trust and faith that their union will remain strong. They also realize their mistakes and see their ego as the main obstacle in the path of their complete happiness.

Consequently, they openly discuss their plans and wounds, as they wish to work out through their differences. Therefore, the frequency of compassion returns and remains.

Two Become One

In this stage, the ego dies, and the divine force takes control, leading to a complete spiritual awakening. This is the stage where the twin souls radiate divine love, instead of mere romantic love.

The partners fully abandon their emotions, mind, and spirit in the hands of divinity and subsequently, reach soulful maturity. New creative and healing abilities are being developed, such as forgiveness, flexibility, complicity, passion, and patience.

After all the seven twin flame stages, the two souls being to think and act like one.

Are you one of the lucky souls who has met their twin? If so, please share with us your experience with twin flame stages, and let’s help others identify their soulmate.

References:

  1. https://lonerwolf.com
  2. https://thoughtcatalog.com

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  • I don't know this article the nail on the head kind of spooky but you know what puts a smile on my face because the Twin Flame I believe I'm with now is an everlasting we have split up so many times Patrol me bonkers lots of ego lots of push pole lots of research trying to figure out what's what I'll call you right now 9 once I wasn't with her I had the hardest time in my life I felt that piece but I guess it was to rejuvenate this relationship and being away from her I cannot even look at another or be with another before never even crossed my mind I kept to myself and that was it. Now that we are back together we're both on a spiritual journey with church and doing things that preachers of God telling us to do it's funny cuz she teaches me and I teach our this is insanity. When I look at her picture I just smile and say to myself oh my God you're my twin flame this is who I'm supposed to be with this is insanity this is awesome but yes the relationship is very strenuous on the both of us best of luck to everybody out there try to be positive because these twin flames that were with we're supposed to be with

  • I met my twin back in the summer of 2007 or 2008... I can't quite remember. Actually, I first met him even further back when we were children, also during the summer but nothing happened then (with me) since he liked my friend. I do remember noting being drawn to this boy though, and how weird that was since kids cut through our school all the time, or would come play on our basketball court (which is what he would do) and I never paid them any mind. I must have only been 8 at the time.

  • I didn't know about twin souls before I met mine. I can't describe hell overpowering it is. 20 yr age differance is irrelevant . Having know her less than a mo. there is now an Emptiness that I never knew existed . obviously I have no control over it and trust in the Devine to reunite us .

  • I met my twin flame 19 years ago he has ran away 4 times because he said I scare him he has been with this other girl for awhile but that's ok because I feel him and I see 1s and sometimes my body just aches for him !! I dont discuss it with many people cause I hear oh get over it!! Yea easy for them to say because obviously they haven't met theirs ita like a internal hook hes a make version of me and our love making took me to heights and pleasure that are out of this world..13 years now and it's as strong as the minute he ran off again

  • Hi there, I met my twin flame many years ago, like 36 years to be exact, we were at the same college, the attraction was instant like a pull towards each other that couldn’t be controlled. But then he kissed me and it scared the hell out of me it was so passionate so intense, I felt I needed to run and I did, since then we have had off and off again contact. We are both with different life partners . This destroys me, I’d do anything to be with him and I feel he would too only we both have families. I tell myself in my mind our time will come. I feel him all the time, his happiness and his pains in life. Does anyone else experience pain like this? Will we ever be together?
    Lisa

    • Lisa,

      As the runner, your place in the relationship is to accept that you did run from the love of your twin, as you have. After this, it is best to accept that you are not going to be truly happy without him. If staying with a karmic partner is more important to you than having your one true love, by all means stay where you are. However, if you truly love your twin as you say you do, accept that staying with your karmic partner is never going to being you true happiness. You deserve to have your one true love by your side. Don't live the rest of your life in regret. Resolve within yourself how you can most respectfully separate from your karmic, and really think through it. Once you know your twin and have the heart awakening, any other love is superficial. You do not love your karmic like you do your twin, and it is time to let go of karmic love and embrace true love. All twins are beginning to accept this. Runners have such a large responsibility to accept that their chaser counterpart cannot make them return. He could wait the rest of his life just for one more chance. If you open up to him and tell him you want to be with him, get his honest feedback. If he wants to leave his karmic situation, and you find in doing so, be prepared for the Rocky situation ahead. No one ever had true love without many obstacles. True Love is something you have to fight for until the very end. It will not come easy, and it will not come without sacrifice. I have learned that completely. I hope this has helped. Explore all your options before committing, however, you have accepted your true feelings. Consider what you will lose to do this, but also consider what you will never have if you don't. The clock is ticking. Please don't wait too long. Regrets are not worth having in life. Your chaser deserves to have you all to himself. Thank you for sharing. I know the twin flame pain as good as anyone. I hope this helped you. I wish you the very best and hope you make the right decision.

Published by
Andreea Vaduva, B.Sc. (Hons)