Spirituality

7 Twin Flame Stages You Need to Go through to Reunite with Your Soulmate

Published by
Andreea Vaduva, B.Sc. (Hons)

When we feel attracted to somebody or enter a relationship, we tend to believe that we have met our true love, the soulmate, the twin. However, there are 7 distinguishable twin flame stages that will help you identify the life-changing relationship.

First of all, it is important to define the connection of Twin Souls. This connection is actually an energy bond above all. Twin Souls have the same energy component as their vibrational frequency is exactly the same.

It is believed that originally, the two souls are part of the same sphere of pure energy. After the sphere was divided into two, the two souls were separated for thousands of years, and they took a bit from the energy of others with whom they interacted in every life.

Thus, there are several twin flame stages the two souls should go through in order to reunite again.

Nowadays, we are noticing more and more twin souls relationships as their mission is to reunite and become examples of unconditional love. They are meant to live a healthy and abundant life and, at the same time, help humanity by increasing positive vibrations and create a New Earth based on values, virtues, and love.

But in order to reach the Union, each soul needs to evolve and leave behind the whole accumulated baggage of the thousands of lives and reach the same pure energy that they both had at the beginning. This is where the seven different twin flame stages come into play.

Desiring Each Other

Long before twin souls physically meet one another, they sense each other. They intuitively know that their better half is somewhere in the world. They can feel each other’s vibrations, they may even telepathically communicate and sense each other’s unhappiness or personality traits.

Recognition or the “Wake-up Phase”

Both recognize each other and experience a soulful connection. They feel as if they have met before. Synchronicity events take place in order to create the union, and this when the heart chakra opens, so both souls can merge into third unified energy.

Both souls experience an acceleration of spiritual understanding. Every thought or emotion is well understood without requiring much communication.

Testing

Spiritual awakening temporarily disappears and the ego reinstalls. One or both of the souls try to bring the relationship into the “old model” of love, where the desires of the ego and false beliefs are highlighted. This is when Internal conflicts occur.

The souls attempt to guide one another to what they have been taught to believe as being the true definition of love. As such, they will try to shape or change one another, while they both feel at the same time inspired and overthrown by the power of the union.

Doubts begin to appear, making one or both of them see the dear one in a critical and suspicious way.

The purpose of this phase is to bring to the surface old believes, perhaps learned over time, in order to be eliminated. This way, the twin souls can regain their pure, initial energy.

Crisis

The third one of the twin flame stages is defined by a crisis. It is the phase where they reject egotistical beliefs about love or relationships. Having to give up on the ego or the false identity based on desires and beliefs in order to embrace a higher experience of love can lead to stubbornness and anxiety.

Fear can take the lead by triggering many common dysfunctional emotions.

Despite contradictory perceptions, this phase could be considered a ritual that will cement the existing love and create high levels of consciousness in the energy of the two flames.

Fugitive Thoughts

The accumulated tension between the twin souls can either be beneficial and strengthen the union or can backfire and tear them apart for a while.

This is the twin flame stage where frustrations may appear and a strong desire of ending the union. Perhaps temporary separations or silence may be experienced in order to contemplate the meaning of the union and its chances of survival.

The success of the union is based on the emotional maturity of the involved parties. If one of the partners may still need time to evolve, it may be that rupture of the union will occur, so s/he can then return.

Surrender

At this stage, the twin souls surrender their wishes and desires into the hands of Divinity, with full trust and faith that their union will remain strong. They also realize their mistakes and see their ego as the main obstacle in the path of their complete happiness.

Consequently, they openly discuss their plans and wounds, as they wish to work out through their differences. Therefore, the frequency of compassion returns and remains.

Two Become One

In this stage, the ego dies, and the divine force takes control, leading to a complete spiritual awakening. This is the stage where the twin souls radiate divine love, instead of mere romantic love.

The partners fully abandon their emotions, mind, and spirit in the hands of divinity and subsequently, reach soulful maturity. New creative and healing abilities are being developed, such as forgiveness, flexibility, complicity, passion, and patience.

After all the seven twin flame stages, the two souls being to think and act like one.

Are you one of the lucky souls who has met their twin? If so, please share with us your experience with twin flame stages, and let’s help others identify their soulmate.

References:

  1. https://lonerwolf.com
  2. https://thoughtcatalog.com

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  • I met my twin flame this year on Valentine’s Day. I saw signs like 1111,333,222,444 etc. like crazy maybe a year prior to our meeting. I got out of the military and moved back to Texas for the first time in like 8 years. I noticed on my license plate it had the number 1911 on it. Prior to moving I was obsessed with getting 1911 pistol like out of nowhere, which I eventually got.

  • Omg guys. I met my twin flame when I was 14 and he was 15 (almost 16), I was so young. I'm 19 atm and he's 21. (I'll be 20 soon) I was the runner and we would switch sometimes. I don't wanna get into it but atm he's dating someone else. I used to too but I broke it off and I'm focusing on myself. I really miss him and my heart hurts at the distance between us, but I want him to be happy. If his happiness lies with me, he'll come back. My arms are open wide and I will wait forever. Other than that I trust in him and the universe and I know that we'll be okay. Nothing can keep us apart, if it could, I wouldn't have stopped running. Once I make up my mind to do something, I won't stop for anything. So if I changed my mind because of him, that means we belong together. I adore him and I really really really don't want to live without him.

  • Waited my whole life for her only to find that she hadn't waited for me.
    She was already married with a child.
    So the very same joyous instant that I found her was the very same instant I was forced to tear myself physically away.
    I still kept my heart open with infinite love for her while forced to shut off my want of physical connection to her down as it was too painful to be pulled to someone whom I could not be with.
    It was pointless even to ask the name or address of someone whom I knew I could not physically be with.
    My dream coming true of finding her.
    Our coming so so very close to reunion by our becoming emotionally and spiritually One but not as physically One with each other.
    The last time we were together she motioned her head for me to break my telepathic TWINFLAME connection to her.
    I just smiled back at her as I knew and sensed our TWINFLAME connection was permanent and unbreakable.
    I had hoped and planned before we were forever separated to explain everything about our TWINFLAME connection (and maybe give her my contact email address incase she ever needed to urgently get in touch) but we were parted before I had the chance.
    It's now been over 15 years and despite the fact that our magnetic pull has increased infinitely we still have no Earthly way to contact each other.
    Since we were parted I have continued pushing full steam ahead to learn her side of our connection and have alone succeeded in breaking through into our joint TWINFLAME power which increases daily to never again lessen as I push through on our joint behalf into ENLIGHTENMENT and our hopefully soon ASCENSION which I am doubly sure she can fully sense feel and too welcomes and is in agreement with.
    I hope and pray that she is DIVINELY steered here to recognise herself in this post and to respond below.
    I'd hate for us both to die without our ever at least once getting in touch.

  • I met this guy in high school during my freshman year and he was a sophomore at the time. I eventually had a crush on him as did he, but we didn't go out. We eventually became best friends even after we graduated. Our friendship kept developing over the past 10 years. We always remained in contact with one another. My crush for him eventually stopped, but he was still in love with me this whole time.

    Despite that, we both went in and out of relationships, constantly going to each other for advice. We were always there for each other, listening to what the other was saying. The funny part is we never hung out during the 10 years as he was in the Marines doing his service there.

    In 2018, my boyfriend at the time broke up with me and him being my best friend, I asked him to come over to talk to. He came over, which was the first time we last seen each other since high school. We were just talking like nothing ever changed. Then I fell in love with him.

    We eventually got together and became a couple. I was never happier. Then, of course like every couple, we'd fight a lot. After being together for a year and a half, he ended it with me.

    I went to the psychic to get an insight. Apparently, she said that he was in fact both my soulmate and twin flame. When looking it up, I found out the different stages. We had the blissful stage, where we were really happy together. When that passed, all the fighting started to ensue, which is why he broke up with me. Now I'm just waiting for him to come back.

  • Twin flames are a curse: its not eternal love which one can enjoy. Our souls, both, figure out that we can have other relationships than the one that hurts like hell and will lead to the worse. I felt mine as he is tired of me from previous lives and just wishes something else. What do you do with that? Nobody has the answer. Wish all this would be made up, but can’t fake it. Honestly just beying real helps so much more than feeling. Thanks for bringing out the topic though.

    • I have zero conflict with my Twin Flame and she has zero conflict with me.
      There is zero running nor chasing.
      We are in perfect eternal love - except that she was already married with a child before we met.
      I love her eternally above all.
      She loves me eternally above all.
      We are both heartbroken that we cannot be together.

Published by
Andreea Vaduva, B.Sc. (Hons)