Here are just a few of the weird habits most introverts have:
The last thing an introvert wants is to get into a conversation with a stranger, a neighbour, heck anyone actually! So they go into a military mode when it comes to leaving the house, checking through the curtains, the peephole, or over the wall before they leave.
Rather than talk to strangers, an introvert will pretend to nod off at a party or social event. They would prefer to appear rude than have to go through small talk with people they barely know.
Another one on our list of weird habits is that nearly all introverts will leave their phones to go to answerphone, even though they are sat there when it is ringing. They prefer to hear a voicemail message than have to talk to a real person.
For most people, a normal reaction to cancelled plans is to feel disappointment, but not the introvert. They will do a mental high five to themselves and start planning their weekend of reading and alone time.
An introvert’s idea of hell is having to chat small talk with people they don’t know. However, get them one-to-one with someone they are really close to where they can go deep into a conversation and they thrive.
This weird habit has to do with avoiding that small talk again. An introvert would rather hide behind a supermarket shelf than encounter someone where they’ll have to engage in conversation.
Introverts tend to have a few close friends that know absolutely everything about them. All the other people that know the introvert will only be told the very basics and know nothing about their personal life or dramas.
Typically, when you see people wearing headphones out in public, you’d assume they were listening to music. Well, it’s not always the case. Some, like our introverts, use them as a defense to stop others from talking to them.
Introverts find social interaction exhausting, so they have to have plenty of alone time in order to recharge their batteries and renew their energy levels. Spending a lot of time with other people actually makes them ill. So don’t expect them to be party animals – they simply can’t do it.
Introverts find the whole idea of flirting nauseating and actually don’t really know how to do it. You have to be quite confident to put yourself forward and out there in front of another person and for an introvert, this is just too frightening.
Even an unexpected text can throw off the most introverted person, but believe me, it is much better than a phone call. Phone calls demand attention and action by their insistent ringing whereas a text can be left for a few hours and dealt with later.
An introvert’s friends will typically know when their friend has had enough of them. But this doesn’t stop the introvert from telling them, in no uncertain terms, to get lost when they need to be alone.
Introverts thrive on the internet. In fact, they are more likely to work on it, stay on it longer for social reasons, and use it for shopping than extroverts are.
Extroverts prefer face-to-face interactions with work, they go out socially and shop in bricks-and-mortar shops. Introverts love the online world because it gives them the chance to communicate at a slower pace.
Are you an introvert? If so, can you relate to any of the above weird habits? Let us know in the comments section below.
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I can definitely flirt, and I don't think it's right to equate introversion with lack of confidence. Introversion for me has a lot to do with being so introspective, and loath of the superficial, not with my level of self-esteem or self-confidence. I have plenty of both. You're 100% on the small talk thing, what a bore and complete waste of time. I don't answer the phone unless it is someone from my inner circle most of the time, and that is because they already know I don't like the phone except to make plans to meet up, and that too, honestly can be done with a few short texts. If they're calling, I know it's important, and I answer. It's more agoraphobic who would literally check to avoid people when leaving the house than it is introverted. I've never pretended to be sleeping at parties, and I don't go to parties, other than a few gatherings with my inner circle, and I already know everyone attending, except in the rare occurrence, someone brings an unknown friend, and this I can acclimate to this with no problem. I have and do however pretend to be sleeping when a roommate is getting home late and has a habit of engaging me in late-night conversation, but usually, I oblige, as he's been adopted as my kid brother. My favorite part of the article was
"They tell nothing to many and everything to a few."
This is 100% spot on, and we don't gossip either and have no respect for those who do, and will limit our time around them to ni if necessary, regardless of the relationship dynamic, familial or otherwise.
Thanks for sharing,
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Hello,
I have all of those habits..
I don't know about #2 and #3 is what caller I'D is for, but all the others I totally agree with.
No offence, but it looks like the text has been written by a psychologist, not an actual introvert. Tendency to generalize is too high. Why should introvert go to an uninteresting party or set up unwanted meeting durning weekend? Would it be some kind of attempt to "socially normalize" themselves? The idea about muted headphones is also funny. It is extremely rare to be bothered by random person on the street, and at 99% this person would be beggar or street marketer (same thing after all). The best line of defense is to ignore them.
I will share my quirk, becauce there is nothing similar in this article: I like to meet new people in group of my old friends, because newcomers need to open themselves, and I don't need to do anything. Moreover it gives me a while to think - if I want to know this new person better, or confine to formal "hi".
There is one more thing that is even worse than unwanted small talk - seeing one person more than once per day. Don't ever say "hi" again, or you will look like a moron. Etiquette suggest just eye contact and smile, but it is also awkward.
omg! you've been following me haven't you? 😉.... also thanks for the idea.. I do have some headphones lying about... (some of them even work...)