Mystics claim that the world of our dreams can be a connection to other worlds, inaccessible to our waking consciousness, so it is not a coincidence that since ancient times, it was believed that dreams of dead people are an important sign that must not be ignored.

The dead come to our dreams with a message, advice or warning that should be understood in order to avoid unnecessary troubles and keep ourselves from making mistakes, according to mystics.

Psychologists believe that dreams about relatives or friends who have passed away are just a manifestation of depression or feelings of guilt towards them.

However, let’s take a closer look at the mystical point of view and try to understand what messages can be carried by people who are now alive only in our memories and can talk to us only through our dreams.

Modern dream books often do not pay enough attention to many important nuances: what the dead people look like in our dreams – dead in the grave, alive and happy, or they come to life right before our eyes, or maybe we just do not remember in our dream that this person passed away long ago.

Interpretations of dreams about deceased people

It is commonly assumed that the dream of a dead person (talking to him, listening to his advice, and doing what he tells) is a sign of unexpected news or changes in life. Christian dream interpretation books sometimes explain that we have such kind of dreams when the soul of our deceased relative or friend has not found peace yet, and advise to hold additional ceremonies at the funeral and repose of the deceased (for example, if in the dream the deceased asks for water).

Pagan interpretations of dreams that have come down to us recommend to implicitly obey everything that the dead person asks for, in order to avoid the anger of the gods. And while dreaming dead people may be scary, sometimes it can be a good omen.

In case if in your dream a dead person comes back to life, it may mean that something lost will soon return (money, a thing, or even social status).

An English dream book interprets the dream of dead people as a sign of good events in the family, such as a wedding or the birth of a child or anything happy and prosperous. Another dream book says that seeing a dead relative in a dream before the wedding is a warning against the union. This dream indicates the unhappy marriage and warns that the children born in it will be sick and weak.

What about the dreams of a deceased relative?

At this point, there is no definitive interpretation, and you should always take into account many confounding factors. But most interpretations concerning dead relatives (especially parents) appearing in a dream indicate a warning of trouble.

Sometimes the dreams in which a sleeping person communicates with their deceased parents, help find inner peace, confidence, and even affect the success in business and the well-being of the family.

It is also believed that it is impossible to influence the dreams in which we see our dead loved ones. Mystics claim that even if you manage to do it, it is absolutely useless, since it is not us who call them in, it is them who decide to come to us.

For further information, check my recent article about the dreams of the deceased.


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  1. Mary

    My dream was of my dad…he passed away on Feb 27 2017…i took care of him his last 2 months..my son had posted a picture of his old tractor (he was a farmer) that night i dreamt of me and my younger sister with him on that same tractor..i just cant get that out of my mind..

  2. Kristi Smith

    My grandmother passed away this past Saturday ( October 7th 2017 ). We buried her today, well last night/ this morning I had a dream that I was alone with her at the funeral home and she opened her eyes and jumped out of the casket screaming holding on to my legs. The past 2 months before her passing she was really sick and would tell me she’s scared to die. So now after my dream I feel like she’s stuck in limbo scared and not at peace. Please tell me I’m wrong!!!

  3. kenneth scott blake

    I had a dream of 5 dead people that was in a circle only their heads showed these people I’ve had never seen I’m a retired fire fighter they didn’t talk all they did was look at me as they were spinning slowly this is no joke I need answers please

  4. Gem

    Hi
    I have had two dreams this week of my Nan who passed away five years ago. The last dream I had was so emotional for me because she was dead initially but came back to life and she needed an operation for her chest/ heart. I was waiting with my brother for her to come out of recovery but she never as I found out she died again. What does this mean ? Someone please let me know

  5. Antonio Padron

    I keep having dreams of friends that died. Last night I was talking to a friend and his mother who died in 89, and they died about a month apart.

  6. kayode victor

    Comment…
    am awleays having dreams about my deceased grandmother,cousin nd recently my uncle.every month I do dream about them.smtimes my grandmum talks ,even my cousin,bt I dnt hear.
    pls I nid an answer.

  7. jeremiah

    When i went to rest my head i fell asleep i saw all my friends and family dead in, like a slide show am i going insane?

  8. Janice gruver

    I dreamed I was pregnant with a girl and was so happy but then my deceased aunt and uncle appeared in my dream and my two youngest sons 11 and 8. My 8 year old was getting something from the refrigerator and spilled it and my uncle grabbed him angrily and threw him down he began to cry and he put his lower arm across his mouth as if to suffocate my aunt was just their quietly and I was trapped under my uncle and felt the strong urge to protect my son but useless.. Then my deceased stepfather appears but is like my aunt just sorta lingering their…

  9. Zaneka Nembhard

    Guys I dreamt about my deceased cousin while I was taking a nap its like he was under the sheet curled up and he was writing on the sheet saying” I dont want u to see me like this ,I woke up suddenly after ,lord knows I miss him 😢.

  10. Deborah Brooks

    My husband passed away 5 months ago from Sepsis. He also had stage 4 liver CANCER. Im the last week Ive had 2 seperate dreams of him passing away again but from an auto accident and the other was in was laying in a casket and we were just waiting around for him to die. What is the meaning of this ?

  11. Deb

    My dream is about my aunt who died of cancer a yr ago and everytime i have a dream of her she is talking to me but her face is all black. I dont know why she is coming back to me like that?

  12. Stanley raini

    I dream of my mother who died almost fifteen yrs ago sleeping in one bed and she started vomiting. Please help.

  13. Sam

    I just dreamt last night that I in a panic at an event, I found my mom dead in the trash. She’s been dead for 8 years.

  14. Lata chandra

    My husband passed away 3 yrs ago…my 34 yr ol son passed away in an accident 11 July 2017…..I dream sometimes and also dream dead relatives n small baby n kids n also people in the village who passed away few yrs back….. wat does this mean….pls help to stop seeing these kind of dreams

  15. Daphne

    I dreamed my deceased father keeps coming back to life. He says he is aluve why do people keep saying he is dead.

  16. Janice

    I don’t remember what we were doing but my mother who has been dead 20 years was walking away from me I was yelling at her to turn around so that I could see her face but she wouldn’t

  17. ruby

    dreaming of my bestfriend who dies 12years ago. in my dream i saw him so alive and happy and i was so happy too seeing him and hug him like he is real. i know he left w/o even saying goodbye and missing him a lot. i dont know what he want why he came into my dreams.

    1. Jody Spurgeon

      Ruby,
      I believe your best friend is telling you that he’s okay and not to worry about him. Maybe this was his way of saying goodbye. I hope this helped.

  18. Marsha

    a very close friend passed away just last month. I never got the chance to say goodbye..
    these past few nights I wake up having been dreaming about him, nothing spectacular happens in my dreams, we bang out and he hugs me, he is crying. which makes me cry…then just as he is about to speak to me, I wake up…..usually in tears…
    please help me figure out what these dreams mean!!

  19. Dolana Lipari

    My grandmother recently passed away. I never dream of my deceased grandfather. I did the other night it was very vivid…i was on a beach with my husband…he called me by my name I turned around he was happy and looked good he had a big smile on his face…he then told me he was there to pick me up and that grandma was waiting in the car for me…I was very happy to see him…I said ok! Just let me take a dip in the ocean first…I jumped into the water ran out on to the shore…then I woke up…I felt very at peace when I woke…what does this dream mean?

  20. Michael

    Thanks for the information. I keep having dreams where I don’t recognize at first that my relatives who have passed are dead, but when I do remember, and start having lucid dreaming, I tell the individual that they are dead. And almost always they give me a smile, like I found out and wasn’t supposed to then I wake up? Has anybody ever heard of rules that the dead can’t interact with the living in dreams, they can only observe and interact without us knowing?

    1. Belinda

      I have similar dreams, i keep telling them that are dead and they have to leave… I dream of random people that have passed on and most of the time they arent ready to leave and i chase them away… I am so freaked out and confused by this

    2. Tommy

      This is all theory from experience btw. I do believe there may be visitation rules. It also might depend on how connected you and that person are. An additonal factor could be your natural spiritual awareness level. I experienced dreams of loved ones and only on the 2nd dream which were two years apart were they able to say something. One dream was indirect speaking and the other was directly to me. All I can say is don’t think about it too much. Simply seeing how you are doing is all their intent.

    3. Jono

      Hi Michael… the dead can only interact in dreams not in waking life… when we sleep we are unconscious and therefore open to their communication…

  21. Mary

    I just had the most delightful dream with my long time deceased daddy and my deceased golden retriever . Daddy and I were laughing so hard and later in the same dream my dog was doing obedience tricks. It was wonderful!

  22. adelina

    my dad past away 12 years ago i had a dream with him that we were in a trip and he left to take a relative home and he past away in a store and i called his cell 2 days later someone answer his dead and a ran to my relatives house and they were so calm yeah he died in the store i crying alote then my mom and i were with out nothing but in that part i had the life i have right know that am married with kids and pregnant but my husband is not in the dream

  23. Bethuel Nawabeb

    I dreamed of my uncle (my fathers elder brother) who was a pastor by profession and that passed away long time ago, for about 13 to 15 years. I dreamed that he apparently rose and was re-marrying to another women that was not clear in the dream. I just have a strong feeling that there might be a message within that dream which is quiet not clear to me. Because what I don’t understand is, if it was a message of me having to marry, that is very impossible as I am already also married. So I strongly believe that there is a message within that dream, which I am so eager on wanting to know what the message is and what it means.

  24. Darryl

    My dream last night was very vivid which included my deceased sister, my deceased first wife and the deceased captain of my ship in the US Navy. The connection with my captain was he attended the wedding of my deceased wife and I. From what I can remember, each encounter was one on one. It was like being at a social gathering where you wander around the room having one on one conversations. The conversations were light and much like catching up, how have you been doing as mentioned here. There were unresolved issues with my sister and my wife when they departed and both experienced a horrible painful death, but not with my captain. So I am wondering if deceased people from your past are allowed to petition for a visit and if all are for good, then up to three are allowed a group visit in the same dream representing the trinity. The only one that knew the other two deceased was my deceased wife. One loved me like a brother, one pretended to love me for selfish gain followed by divorce and one just thought very highly of me. The room was pleasant and bright with lots of sun coming from the windows. When I woke all three faces were in my mind followed by remembering the individual encounters. I felt like they all wanted to make sure I remembered it and remember them.

  25. Patty

    I dreamed I was in a room full of strangers and they were all actually dead but came to life in my place of business. I woke up very frightened. I didn’t know any of these people

  26. marcia

    Friday i dreamed of my grandmother giving me large sum of money while my sister was holding a new born n it felt like my other granny was dead but she’s alive woke up very confused,today I dreamed of my deceased uncle we were traveling in a car n my other uncle who’s alive was so angry with me what does all this mean? Feeling worried

  27. Tony Rodriguez

    I had a dream this morning of a family friend that my mother took care of him since we were little well he passed away a few months ago and I had two dreams already of him trying to say something and all I see is him mumbling and the other dream was us walking and I seen a light in the sky and him pointing at it and I’m guessing he’s not resting at peace cuz his sister burned him and kept his ashes we think we don’t know what can you tell me what u think??

  28. Mahaleth Sotelo

    I had a dream about someone who passed away last year. In the dream that person told me he was not dead and handed me a piece of paper telling me where he was. I never opened the paper in the dream, shortly after I woke up. Any thoughts?

    1. Kayah

      Do you believe in environmental spirits? They say that if they take a human and bring that person in their dimension, they would make a something to look exactly like that person and that would be the one to act in that person’s place in the real world.That clone would come home and would slowly become weak and sick until it dies. Then his/her relatives would think that he/ she is dead already. But the truth is, the one that died isn’t really that person.. Only a disguise/ clone created by the spirits. The real person is living in the enchanted world already and would visit his/her family in dreams to say that he/she isn’t really dead. Some even receives letters in real life telling the family not to worry for he/she is alive and well wherever he/she is.

  29. Alize

    My dad had a dream where my grandma(who passed away from cancer) asked for a cup of water. In the dream, they were at a buffet and after my grandma received the water, she left. Does this mean that she’s not in peace?

  30. Nkele Musupi

    I have been dreaming about my boyfriend who passed away… a month ago….in my dream we we’re having a very nice any good conversation… we we’re talking about his dress code in his coffin… I asked him if his okay and he said yes I should not worry his in a better place… that’s when I realized that His In A Better Place and Resting In Peace… I would find a lot of ants in my Waldrop… I would hear his whistles… I would feel his presence sometime… And I just believe that his My Guardian Angel. His always with me ❤

  31. Linda Abram

    I’ve just had a dream my dead mother came into a room grabbed my arm hugged me I remember saying mum I’ve missed you

  32. Sta

    I had dream last night about my grandfather who died last 3 months ago, that i was talking to my grandfather on the cellphone …then suddenly i woke up

  33. Linda Anyango

    I had a dream where I was in my ancestral home and I had food in a certain basket, fried chicken pieces, roasted and boiled maize.and all of a sudden all the people who had died and buried there come to live and were speaking to me as I was giving them the food..but it happen my brother and I were the only people who could see the dead people ..other people were just seeing food moving in the air..my mum who is alive was one of the dead people and they were happy with me and telling me to continue with what am doing..they were all my dead relatives both adults and children. My brother and I feasted with them..as people alive and children were watching..but they could not see the dead people.

  34. Priya

    I had a dream about my best friend who died becuz of bike accident he came in my dream and i was very egar to talk with him but he kept on saying he is getting late let him go hardly he could talk with me and he disappeared . Wht does this mean???

  35. Jeff

    I have re-occurring dreams of my grandfather visiting me. They are so vivid and stay with me for a long time. In the dream he is still alive and my grandmother is always with him. He never speaks to me just feel his wonderful presence. I have asked him to please speak to me next time when I wake up. Anyway, last night after years he finally spoke, but it was strange. In my dream I brought a gift of some old photos I thought my grandmother would like to see. He dissmissed this gift and told he very abruptly she doesnt want these, she wants something else. I thought it was such a nice sweet gift and his dismissive reaction mad me so mad I told him, fine fuck off. I woke up and cant believe I told my grandfather to fuck off. What the hell was that?

  36. Dolores Ann Cruz

    I keep having dreams of my friend that passed over 5 years ago she was my bff and she passed while I was in jail in all my dreams she just there with me to help me out on what ever it is that I need. Just like when she was alive what does this mean??

  37. Roxana

    I dreamt of my niece who died a year and a half ago. A year ago my son and wife had a stillborn at 9 month. In this dream my niece told me heaven was beautiful and she hug me and kissed me. She also said twice and touched my belly twice that that soul will return again. I’m 63 so not in childbearing age. But made me think of our baby Aaron who was born silent. Any thoughts??

  38. Christina

    Last night I was listening to the radio love songs some sad awhile thinking about my beloved chiuauah that was killed last month on the 21St of March he was 11 yrs old. So I was reminiscing of Tiny and couldn’t stop crying later on that night I fell asleep and dreamt of my dad who has passed since 2013 and best believe yes I was daddy’s girl. Anyhow I’ve been having car problems and truck has been in the shop for over a month already but have not fixed it due to having to move therefore short on cash. My dad was a mechanic and in my dream he’s telling me and comparing parts with me and telling me that bigger even though expensive is better. I’m not sure what dad is trying to tell me is it to let the man the mechanic who has it that’s charging me so much to let him fix it or should I take it to someone else who will charge me less. My dad loved his mechanics and never did anything but that all his 75 yrs he was alive. What could this possibly mean? I love and miss you daddy always and forever ❤️

  39. anthony palladino

    I dreamed my Brother ,Father ,and Stepmother all deceased, were driving around and coming to pick me up . When they arrived my brother got out of the car and was talking to me but i dont remember what he said..Thats all I remember

  40. Myra Mexicano

    My Kids Father Recently Passed In October 2017 I Had One Or Two Dreams About Him Some we’re good some were bad but last night I had another one I couldn’t remember just a part where we were hanging out at his friends or somewhere but we were all smoking a joint laughing having a good time he said something to me but I don’t remember an by the time he said it I woke up … What is he trying to tell me or is he happy n made it to heaven or is his lost 😟😭

  41. Charlie

    I had a dream Friday night my dad came to me he said you will be in heaven with me shortly.
    My dad died in 1990. My mom has passed away also but, she was not in the dream.

  42. ashley

    Last night before I went to bed I had the first sense of calmness sense my father passed four days ago. I closed my eyes relaxed my breathing and cleared my head. Next thing I know I am in space surrounded by stars and their is this angelic person floating there with her arms out she is not solid but like a strong apparition I guess and she flew a couple feet down and pulls my sleeping dad up from the bottom of my vision. The higher she rose the younger and healthier he became. Once he was at our level he woke up with the just most brilliant smile, a smile I had not seen him gleem so hard in a long time. My dad then grabs the appartions hand and they begin to dance “ballroom dance” my dad always loved dancing, as they were dancing I saw the apparition turn into a young version of my nana and they were just dancing and dancing. I felt peace but I became overwhelmed and began crying and asking why did he go and he put his hand on my cheeks and told me he loves me so much and just kept saying it. I woke up after that.

  43. Debbie Black

    My dad died 5 years ago, I had one dream about 3 months after he died of him smiling and I asked him loads of questions about everything, was he happy ? What’s it like in heaven? How long is he hear for? He kept smiling and just walked out of my front door with a smile on his face and then disappeared , I know he was telling me he was ok and I then relaxed and have been ok since.
    Then last night I dreamt my door bell rang and I answered it and it was my dad very upset and shaking his arms and very distressed, I ran into the longe and told my husband my dad was at the door it really upset me seeing him like this, my husband went to the door and he had gone.
    I think he is warning me of something terrible is going to happen, what does anyone think

  44. Carmen Friley

    Dreamed of my son’s dad who has been passed since Oct 2017 that he had passed away again in my dream but from a different cause.

  45. twila

    Last night my granddaughter had a dream about my daughter who died 40 years ago in November she said that her and her aunt was celebrating dreamers birthday what does that mean she also said that dream look a lot like me

  46. Olguita

    I dreamt about my mother in law who pass away last July the dream was about me being in her old house where she live and die she was showing me how she rearranged her house and how concerned she was about her other son ever since she passed I’ve had many few dreams about her but don’t know why😢

  47. Gonzalez

    I dream of my husband who passed in January of 2018.
    And they always start the same him sick then dies and comes back to live like nothing has happened…every dream has a different setting and a different feeling like im waiting for it to happen so i can save him….wjat does this all mean…

  48. Danita linares

    My mother passed away 5 years ago
    I’ve only dreamt that once before,
    This time I’ve dreamt of her she gave me a a newborn baby girl I was at the hospital suffering with COPD myself what does it mean

  49. Eliška Dvořáková

    I had a dream about my gramdpa who died two weeks ago and I’m confused by it. It that dream, I was with my cousins in some house. There was my deceast grandpa, but I was the only one who could see him. He was covered in black paint. He talked to me like he usually would when we were alone. Then he asked me to bring some food. Before I left the room we were in, he said : “Be careful…”
    I have no idea what does the deam ment…
    (Pleade excuse my english, I’m not a native speaker)

  50. alan kavanagh

    I had a dream about someone I knew how died cant remember what he said does it mean anything

    1. Barbara campbell

      I keep dreaming my sister in-law comes back and she is really not dead. She just left my brother and has been living somewhere else. I keep dreaming that over and over.

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