What Is an Intuitive Empath and How to Recognize If You Are One

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Intuitive empath is a person who has an unusual capacity for sensing and understanding the feelings of others. Could you be one?

Intuitive empaths know what others feel without needing to be told, and they have an unusually sharp sense for whether someone is being truthful or lying.

For this reason, many self-proclaimed intuitive empaths go into the healing professions. There’s a lot of reported evidence from psychologists for the existence of empaths, and it often seems to suggest that they are unhappier than others.

Empathy is present, in general, to a greater degree in women. A study from the journal of Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews stated that there are gender differences as regards empathic response from infancy.

It has been suggested that females are more empathic as a result of neurological adaptation to the traditional role of child-rearing, as it requires a sharper understanding of non-verbal expressions.

The traits of an intuitive empath:

1. You understand where other people are coming from

When empaths are in interactions with others, they’re able to understand how the other person feels and why they feel it. This makes them excellent listeners and great friends. However, being able to put themselves in other people’s shoes and feel as they feel can be extremely stressful. Apart from having to deal with the stress and difficulties which arise in their own lives, they take on other people’s suffering as their own.

2. You are oversensitive

If you are extremely sensitive or have been labelled as being too emotional, you may be an empath. Empaths seem to have the ability to experience emotions at a greater intensity than the rest of us. This can lead to increased joy and pleasure in life, but when they’re exposed to negative stimuli, it can cause extreme anxiety and distress.

It also means that they’re more prone to mood swings than others, as stimuli from the environment can change rapidly from positive to negative. Empaths are often very sensitive to noise and other disturbances, too.

3. You can’t stand witnessing the suffering of others

At one extreme of the empathy spectrum (the low end), there are people with disorders which cause anti-social and often violent, criminal behaviour. Empathic people are on the opposite end of the spectrum, not being able, in some cases, even to watch violent films. They also find things that many people laugh at, like the misfortunes of others, unbearable to witness.

4. You aren’t comfortable in large groups

Because of the intensity and diversity of stimuli in situations involving a large number of people, empaths tend to find being around big groups exhausting and anxiety-creating. It’s common for empaths to prefer being alone or with one or two people. If they have to be in social situations involving large groups, it’s often necessary for them to withdraw early and take time alone to recharge their batteries.

5. You have physical symptoms after emotionally intense situations

Empaths often find that they experience physical symptoms in response to high-intensity situations. Headaches are common as well as fatigue. Empaths may also be more likely to respond to the anxiety they feel by abusing their own bodies with drugs and overeating.

Scientific basis for the existence of intuitive empaths

Empathy is something that nearly all human beings have, with the exception of people who have psychological disorders that prevent them from feeling empathy. Empathy is, therefore, something which is found in human beings on a spectrum –  from high-empathy responses to low-empathy responses.

Confirming the existence of empaths scientifically is difficult though. Human neuroimaging is not at a level of advancement which would allow us to confirm that there’s something different going on in these people’s brains. Up till now, tests have had to, in most cases, consist of surveys and questionnaires about how subjects perceive their own responses. This kind of evidence is very difficult for the scientific community to accept as a solid basis.

Scientists do not currently accept the use of terms such as intuitive empath just as they don’t accept terms like ‘psychic’ or ESP (Extra-Sensory Perception). Scientific research currently divides empathy into the categories of ‘emotional empathy’ and ‘cognitive empathy’. Emotional empathy is the ability to respond emotionally to what another person is going through, and cognitive empathy is the ability to comprehend another person’s perspective or mental state.

Neuroscience, however, which has been dedicated to investigating empathy over the last decade or so, has found that there is a scientific explanation for how living creatures are able to empathise with others.

Neuroscientists have called this phenomenon mirror-touch synaesthesia, where mirror neurons are activated when one animal sees another animal perform a particular behaviour. It has been suggested that in the case of empaths, mirror neuron activity is particularly acute.

It has been proposed that, like in the case of people with a very low empathic response, childhood trauma may be present to a greater degree in empaths than in the majority of the population.

The ability to empathise with the unpleasant experiences of another person may come, to some extent, from having had similar experiences. However, having had similar experiences does not always mean that someone is able to empathise with others going through the same thing.

Do you think you might be an intuitive empath? Share your thoughts with us.

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Caroline Hindle

Caroline Hindle is a freelance writer, editor, and translator living in Athens, Greece. She has an MA in Ancient World Studies, but has a wide spectrum of interests, including philosophy, history, science, literature, politics, morality, and popular culture.

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  1. Kristine ParkGross November 16, 2016 at 5:09 am - Reply

    Very interesting article. You can tell you’ve done your research. I’ve been called an Empath since childhood. I believe my father’s Native American heritage left his mind more open to unexplainable phenomena like how if a dog from our neighborhood (one I’ve never met or been associated with) would be lurking around our yard, so he’d come get me, bring me outside and without him saying a word I’d find the dog & gesture for it to come over. Sure enough, without the hesitation it showed my father, it would come to me and let me show it affection & after touching foreheads with it(something I’ve always done and still do with any animal I meet, well maybe not the really big ones,lol) but after that I’d seem to know exactly what it needed. Some I had to bring things to it’s owners attention like a limp, others just got out & lost. One time I believe an old basset hound was just longing for adventure because after putting it in the car to drive around hoping it would acknowledge it’s home in some way, we got out back at our house it barked at us & trotted off wagging it’s tail, lol. Great memories but true to his word my father wouldn’t pay for any school that didn’t have me dealing with animals, children, or those with special needs (I’ve always gotten along great with all of those. Sadly I didn’t listen and regret it to this day. I do however have a small but wonderful group of very close friends, don’t go out often & prefer the company of my cat& quiet more than anything else. If that makes me empathic, I’m ok with that.

  2. Eva Rami November 16, 2016 at 5:07 pm - Reply

    I believe I am an empath if not more because I often sense the danger before it happens even though I can’t define it or I know deep down that street or that person or that new house will be lots of trouble..
    It is good when good events happen but when it’s fear I know I will wait for bad news..It is a bless and a curse at the same time I think..
    Nice article…keep up the good work

  3. Julie November 19, 2016 at 2:59 am - Reply

    I most definitely fall into this category and before reading this article often wondered if I was just feeling others pain and bad vibes to avoid my own troubles. But I don’t think that’s the case. I believe I’m more than empathic. Yes it does cause me anxiety and I need my own space. But the plus side is that i truly feel at home with nature and the natural world and see beauty in what most people just take for granted great article thanks for sharing

  4. Jae November 25, 2016 at 8:26 am - Reply

    I didn’t know there is this thing call intuitive empath that would describe myself since I cannot remember when I started becoming like this. All that was mentioned above was real and true. I always have these experience. I though I was just introvert person not until I read about this article. True, people like “us” — being intuitive empaths are undergoing distress and frequent mood changes depends on the situation of the person we are interacting with. Especially I work as a nurse, and I noticed my colleagues feel different towards our patients. I don’t know if they care less or I just care more. Or they sympathize or I just empathize. Or they are too stressful to understand deeper the feelings of a patient. Or I just overfeel the feeling of a patient. I don’t know — but I am always exhausted everytime I over sense people. 😩

    • Angel April 14, 2018 at 7:47 pm - Reply

      So happy I stumbled across this article! I too have had and still do have the experiences you have. Never knew there was a scientific name for it. The definition, explains so much. I too am a nurse and always wondered why a lot of the other nurses I’ve worked with didn’t feel the same way towards their patients that I did. Up until now I would think…am I just too sensitive, am I crazy? “They” say after a while you become desensitized to things at work but 20yrs later, I haven’t changed. Yes, of course you have to be a little numb to certain things but it’s almost a coping mechanism for me in order to carry out my tasks. Otherwise I wouldn’t have a career. Would just end up most times running out of a procedure room in tears. Lol anyway I digress.
      There are even times, every day, when something will just pop into my head. I know it’s not my thought and almost immediately afterward, whatever it was, would manifest.
      As far as taking on other people’s issues, feelings etc. My son just asked me the other day, how is it I’m happiest when I’m at home instead of out with friends but would not be considered a “loner” or a “nerd”? I’ve never been able to explain. The fact of it is, while I don’t mind being social(I enjoy it) there’s only so much I can take before feeling exhausted mentally. Being home, helps me to recharge(as stated in the article) and get centred again.
      So much more I can say but I think I’ve probably said more than enough. Lol
      Just wanted to say I can totally relate to your experiences with this and how you feel. Thanks for sharing! And thanks for reading me out! 🙂

  5. Jeffrey December 16, 2016 at 10:37 am - Reply

    I have never understood how once you have felt pain you can inflict it upon another. I become physically ill when faced with the hurt of others. Causing deliberate harm to another whether emotional or physical for FUN is one of our cultures greatest deficits.

    • Rebecca April 23, 2017 at 3:30 am - Reply

      I become physically ill as well when I have to see others in pain.

  6. nightingle February 4, 2017 at 9:07 am - Reply

    That’s really me.

  7. Gennifer cseak April 17, 2017 at 5:09 am - Reply

    I’ve been like this my entire life. I am not sure if my native American Indian blood has something to do with why I’m this way. I feel things. Peoples emotions. If they mean me harm
    I freaked my aunt out. She was staying with me after my uncle had passed. I could feel she was truly upset over something. She tried to cover it up and act like nothing was wrong. I just asked her what was wrong she said nothing. I told her I could feel something was bothering her. She looked at me and said what do you mean by you can feel something is wrong. She is the only person I’ve told about my secret.

  8. Luigi Provencher April 22, 2017 at 5:05 pm - Reply

    I’m pretty sure that I’m an Empath, too but how do I find out for sure? Are there any tests that I can take online?

  9. Carol Herring May 19, 2017 at 4:13 am - Reply

    I also am of Native American Indian ancestry. There have been many instances in my life when out of the blue, I just “knew” something when I had no actual way of knowing. As a child, I was often told that I was fey, the Irish version of intuitive, and sometimes told that I was a witch (not in a neg stove way). Often I have shared the feelings I had with others, and sometimes the response I get is one of fright. Your article fits me so perfectly, it could be a second skin. Thank you for clearing my mind.

  10. Tamara Reyna July 6, 2017 at 9:28 am - Reply

    For a gazillion reasons I know that I am an intuitive empath. I could portray myself as phychic easily if I Wanted to.When I was dabbling in tarot cards I gave several people readings that shocked them how I knew what I did about them. After pondering this for awhile I came up with the theory that I had the ability to pick up on minutely subtle hints or tells that most people can not. Your list of symptoms fit me to a t. I wonder what good is it to be what I am. As a kid my whole family loved watching the 3 stooges and the road runner. I hated them as I found no humor in people hurting each other or the coyote always being smashed or falling down large cliffs. In hindsight I think this was my first indication of being an empath. I am terrible in group counciling as well as it being terrible for me. It feels like besides my issues I’m dealing with all of everybody else’s issue as well. I have on numerous occasions given spot on advise to people and, I would be a super psycoligist except for the fact of listening to others problems all day would be unbearable and would drive me mad and or I would wind up a suicide. At times I appear insensitive and as if I don’t care. However, it is the exact opposite. I realize now that in order to protect myself I can sometimes cause others to see me as insensitive. I have felt like an emotional vampire pack is sucking the life from me. I have distanced myself from people who were especially vampiric even though it was not on purpose. I am 55 and have many many stories of being the way I am and the effects of it and the incidents of it in my life. I see being this way a curse. We all need some some amount of empathy and intuition but, to the extent that I am living with these things It becomes torture. Hevey sigh…

    • karen September 19, 2017 at 11:44 am - Reply

      Wow,YES as I was skimming through some of the other comments I was thinking they have no idea , and many I don’t think are , Then I saw yours and all I can say is EXACTLY.. Being an Intuitve Empath has had its moments and has guided me in or out of certain situations and given me the ability to “read between the line” for say but more then not It has been a curse and it seems the older I get the stronger my “6th sense” “Intuition” “Ability to feel what someone is feeling or to “read them’ OR “hear their thoughts gets. Because I can relate to everyone and everything on some level most cant understand many think I am not who I am If that makes sense . when I was younger up to a few year ago I always wondered how I knew what I knew or knew what someone was thinking (not reading there mind just a knowing of what they were thinking) or how so often like very often I think of someone from long ago or recent friend, acquaintance whatever and soon after I would either see this person or hear from or something portraying to . I am so very observant and I can feel everything going on around me . Its hard to go out with friends at times and have real fun cause I am soaking up others emotions or feelings that it interferes with my own and sometimes I don’t know if my feelings are my own.(if that makes sense) people who know me ask me all the time how did you know that , or you were just talking about them , or I can feel when someone is thinking of me from far away , I have tested this by calling just to hear them say wow I was just thinking of you .. but that is why I called ,I have been called a witch , wicked, or told my intuition is wicked. I cant explain it but sometimes something’s I would rather not know..

      • Joe April 9, 2018 at 2:26 am - Reply

        Look what you can sense about just having something pop up in your head and then like magic that something just presents its self (person) . I have the same deal. All of this is me from being able to almost see thorugh people and see the truth in people. I can visually see this as well as feeling or knowing there intentions. Lots of big crowded places kill me I hate it or just avoid it, like or need to isolate myself to feel safe peaceful and reenergize . Music sounds not the words in the song but the actual tones flood me with energy recharge or motivate me. I am super connected with animals its like they know we understand them . I am just glad to know that what I have lived with my whole life is not just me being crazy it real and probably how I have lived this long. Not sure about you but I would say 8 -10 years ago it just hit me. A over all sense of hopelessness or dread for humanity. So much negative in this world , greed, people hurting people and I dont see us fixing this . I cant watch the news either way too negative like the majority of people dont see this or feed on the bad energy. I hope all of us can change, help each other in the end we are all one species Human.

    • Charlene Nelson December 16, 2017 at 9:00 pm - Reply

      I can relate to what you said to a tee. i too am 56 and have learned to be less sensitive due to the effects of others on my sensitivity. I was involved with a man who had personality disorder. And it was through my research of narcissism I discovered the magnetic pull between an empath and a narcissist. I always knew I was different and very intuitive. I knew when one of my sons died. Had no concrete evidence I could just feel it. I was right. That happens a lot for me. As far as I know I do not have any Native american blood but I am without a doubt and intuitive empath. I am from today forward going to comes to terms with it and learn how to set boundaries, live a healthy life.

  11. Nifara August 13, 2017 at 6:47 pm - Reply

    I consider being an Intuitive Empath a gift once you have learned who you are acknowledged and accepted it as a gift.
    I now use my gift to help others, I learned to protect myself while in public and crowds, I use Nature, meditation and other ways to balance my life and myself.
    I am tired often and know when to re-energize myself, know when to say No! by not taking on more than I can bear or being overwhelmed.
    I listen to different types of music when dealing with different emotions that I sense.
    I had to find what soothes me to help keep me balance, I am obsessed with cleanliness do I choose being OCD with keeping things clean and organized within my home so I don’t focus on what is happening outside.
    Since realizing who I am, I have researched and became knowledgeable to maintain my sanity.
    Gone are the years of knowing what others are thinking before they spoke it, now I have control of what I want to hear and when.
    My home is created as my haven an sanctuary, so I limit the amount of time I spend outside and prepare before doing so.
    I am 59 years of age and knew I have been an Intuitive Empath for most of my life and ran from it, but once I acknowledge and accepted it my life has changed because I use it to help others.
    Thank you for the opportunity to speak this out because I have never told it to anyone, people just think I am strange and a loner.

    • Brenda April 7, 2018 at 8:00 pm - Reply

      Art and music has always been my release, escape, joy and creative response to who I really am. I am 59 years young and finally I am in a self discovery stage of acceptance. I have been empathic my entire life. My daydreams or night dreams are more of movie that I have watched many times and what I see in these visions are the fruition of a future event. I easily recognize when a person is not being truthful. I feel vibrations like a current of electricity from people that zap my energy. I help people achieve thier needs or wants while neglecting myself. I have been counciled within self help groups, family and friends have intervened by what seems natural to me. I am too forgiving they say, over the top sensitive to the needs of others, too giving of myself. I commit myself to animals that need love. Children draw to me like magnets. One question though many people ask me., is What does Brenda want or need that will bring her happiness? I was asked that again yesterday by a biker that has been working on my house upgrades. (I know my truth as I am no longer a secret.) I felt my heart throbbing in my chest and I was sure he could hear it also. I wanted to cry but smiled, I needed to smile but teared. My boyfriend walked in just then and he said… baby girl are you good? I am always good I said. I finally answered the question. What does Brenda really want or need…. I desire trust, loyalty, laughter, grace, peaceful beauty, most of all I need a heart of gold to live inside all mankind. Love is a natural response and it is genuine., if only mankind would harvest it and give it freely.

  12. Sammy December 18, 2017 at 6:06 pm - Reply

    This is me… I can’t explain it but somehow I can understand others with a slight change in their groove. I often feel angry that others are so insensitive to me and every single interaction with anyone at any time is super important to me. I’m extremely sensitive and have had people often denigrate me for this quality. I have every trait you outline me above… I felt things about my nephew living in a different country was using drugs and struggling with mental health – I told his mother to go and see him urgently and that week every detail came out that he was having pscychotic episodes brought on by drugs and and incident. She still doesn’t know how I knew this and neither do I.
    I can sense souls around me too that are kind and people I loved very much.
    I feel like an alien sometimes because others say you’re so sensitive like I have a disease but I know I’m gifted.

  13. Sunflower Kimi Johnson December 29, 2017 at 5:17 pm - Reply

    I’ve been an Empath my entire life, I’m 54 years old. I’ve felt things, and had visions. I’ve told strangers not to do something or to go down a certain street. Many times being empathetic has drained my energy, causing me to become sick. Self healing through certain herbs and vegetables work. I’m back up and running. I believe that having a Native American bloodline, has helped me with being an Empath.

  14. janet January 11, 2018 at 4:54 am - Reply

    I experience a lot of empathy. Sitting on my second story porch one day, I realized as people went by I could feel them hurrying, happy, worried. I could never be a nurse. Too much pain. Also, into touch with birds, animals, plants & trees.

  15. Ruth Langley February 20, 2018 at 3:50 am - Reply

    I’m not sure what I am exactly. I know my daughter is an Empath, but I have had experiences I can’t explain I will give you an example, Years ago I was separated from my husband and I had 2 small children. I wasn’t thinking of anything in particular, cleaning in my living room and suddenly I had this overwhelming feeling and Knowing that my husband was nearby. I plopped down in a chair and had to catch my breath.Then hardly 10 seconds passed and I saw his truck coming around the curve and drove into my driveway. He was bringing presents to my kids. Now tell me what that was?

  16. Ky Davis February 20, 2018 at 12:41 pm - Reply

    I’m now 24 years old and I can’t remember I time when I was never highly intuitive and honestly overly empathic. As soon as I meet someone I can sense how they feel, sense what sort of being they are , I’m overly observant of micro emotions, and body language. I’ve always cared deeply for other people, ANIMALS (reptiles and amphibians too), places, etc. I can describe it physically as a buzzing or tingling throughout my body and depending on the intensity and waves I can decipher what the emotion or message is. I’m not introverted, but I’m not a serious extrovert either. I guess I can deal with large social gatherings in doses, but I can’t fake it if I’m not feeling it or if I become overwhelmed. Sometimes this ability itself overall, is overwhelming, and certainly tiresome. Absolutely agree with this great article, true to the tune.

  17. Karen March 23, 2018 at 9:23 pm - Reply

    The more I research/read on the subject the more I find explanation for my feelings and actions. I’ve always: felt I “knew” what people were thinking/feeling regardless of their words; asked often how I knew things and really couldn’t answer; needed time alone (preferably outside); felt uncomfortable in crowds, felt angry-sad-scared-uneasy-anxious with no clue why. So many people in my life said they just “didn’t understand” what my “problem” was. It is a comfort to know I’m not crazy and feel gifted and blessed to have an answer. My biggest regret is that it took so many years for me to realize it!

  18. Joe April 9, 2018 at 2:06 am - Reply

    I have always just been able to sense the positive people from the negative people from our first exchange of words. I feel as if I can see the energy that is put off as well as what their eyes show me . I have also at times out of no where just thought about a person I havent talked to for a long time , then suddenly that exact person contacts me or I will physically see them in person. I also at times just have a strong feeling of dread or negative heavy energy feeling and instinctly know something bad is about to happen. I normally stop when I get this warning , observe and think of what it might be . Then go back the other way or quit doing what I was doing. Its true that going to groups or counciling with a lot of people around is misery . I hear see feel everything all the time I am always on and it does drain me , put me in bad spirits. I like being alone all by my self , I am always tired it seems. Now I know whats going on with me. This is a gift and I want to research how to better hone these skills to strengthen the ability . Like any thing the more you use it the stronger better and easier it will be to reconize all the things I take in . Yes and I know for a fact that music defentaly effects us in a serious way. It can pull you back up if your drained, fuel us up with motivation and happyness but be care full I find that listing to sad depressing music will pull you down in to the hole . And when I have music on the only thing I hear /feel the notes or music lyrics pretty much are blocked out for me its the feeling of the vibes or energy vibrations.

  19. Terry April 18, 2018 at 4:50 am - Reply

    Hi I think I am an intuitive empath and have been my whole life. I first new I was different when I was four as I had an out of body experience one afternoon when my mom put on the couch for a nap. Since then I had excelled at anything I put my mind too. I can and could feel peoples feelings,emotions and depression. I took computer programming at 14 which was 1974. Also other electives like chess, junior drafting, art and percussion. I can feel the presents of ufo’s as well as other things. My mind is like a sponge. I absorb everything. The thing I hate the most is fear and panic when absorbed because it always takes me by surprise and is the hardest to shake afterward.

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