How to Get Rid of Social Anxiety with These 7 Science-Backed Hacks

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How to get rid of social anxiety?

Social anxiety is a particularly debilitating disorder. It affects up to 13% of the population, so you can imagine how many people want to know how to get rid of social anxiety.

Anyone that suffers from social anxiety knows the crippling fear they experience on a daily basis. Just trying to do the normal things the majority of us take for granted can bring on severe anxiety and panic attacks. It can be really difficult to know how to get rid of social anxiety if you’d had it for a long time. But what exactly is it?

You may suffer from social anxiety if you:

  • Worry about everyday social activities, such as shopping, going to work, talking to strangers, speaking on the phone, being with people.
  • Avoid social activities, such as eating out, going to parties, family gatherings, meetings, and the cinema.
  • Think you are going to embarrass yourself in some way or appear incompetent in front of others.
  • Cannot concentrate when someone is watching you as you feel as if you’re being criticised or judged.
  • Experience panic attacks in the above situations.

So how to get rid of social anxiety?

If you want to learn how to get rid of social anxiety, it is important to find out its origins. Social phobia can come from many different places. Some think it comes down to the belief that we think we’re not good enough, that there’s something wrong with us. We think that we are constantly being judged and once the world finds out what idiots we are we’ll be laughed at.

As for myself, my social anxiety came about from a sense of feeling trapped. I’d had panic attacks before, in relation to travelling. But I’d never experienced them in the workplace. Then one day, I was late back from a lunch break and all of a sudden, I felt trapped and I could not breathe properly. It was so bad I had to go home. From that day, I developed a fear of having a panic attack in public. That started my social anxiety.

Whatever reason is behind your restricted lifestyle, there are ways to get rid of social anxiety.

7 ways that show how to get rid of social anxiety

  1. Tell people about your anxiety

Remember that percentage at the beginning? Up to 13% of people suffer from social anxiety. So 13 people out of every 100 have the same disorder as you. You are definitely not the only one and hiding it away only makes it worse. You’d be surprised at the number of times I’ve mentioned my phobias or anxieties to others, only for them to say ‘me too!’

Suffering from a mental disorder is nothing to be ashamed of. The best thing you can do is tell your friends, your family, your boss, and your colleagues. I bet the majority of them have had some experience of anxiety and welcome you coming forward. But whatever you do, don’t hide away. And if someone mocks you, tell them that at least you are trying to get over your problem.

  1. Talk to yourself in the third person

When I get anxious, the first thing I think is ‘Oh my god, I’ve got to get out’. Research suggests that if you use the third person when you talk, you take the emotion out of a stressful situation. It helps you manage your natural ability to think clearly and objectively.

Just think about it. Imagine a friend comes to you asking for advice about a situation you are not personally involved in. As an outsider, it is much easier for you to see the bigger picture. You can give a fair analysis and not get emotionally involved in all the nitty-gritty.

It’s exactly the same when you have those conversations in your head. Language is a powerful tool. Use it to help you rather than adding to your anxiety.

  1. Breathe

Research suggests that shallow breathing sends signals to the most reptilian part of our brain to prepare us for fight or flight. This increases adrenalin and, where there is no real threat, can make us feel anxious.

Shallow breathing, or hyperventilating, causes an excess of carbon dioxide to build up in our blood. There is new research to suggest that breathing in carbon dioxide-rich air can increase feelings of panic and anxiety. This is because high levels of carbon dioxide change the pH levels in our brain.

Studies show that these levels play an important role in fear. pH levels are carefully monitored in the brain. Any imbalance can cause serious disruption to the way we function. Excessive carbon dioxide causes an increase in acidity and this change in pH triggers a fear response.

Breathing slowly and steadily can regulate the amount of carbon dioxide in your blood. It will also slow down your heart rate. Learning to breathe properly is probably the best way to learn how to get rid of social anxiety.

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About the Author:

Janey Davies has been published online for over 8 years. She is the head writer for Shoppersbase.com, she also writes for AvecAgnes.co.uk, Ewawigs.com and has contributed to inside3DP.com. She has an Honours Degree in Psychology and her passions include learning about the mind, popular science and politics. When she is relaxing she likes to walk her dog, read science fiction and listen to Muse.

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