Obviously, a child going missing is going to fill you will all kinds of emotions: panic, extreme anxiety, guilt perhaps for not paying enough attention. Whereas a friend nipping out of your sight for a brief moment might cause a little irritation or concern.

So, depending on how anxious you felt, think about anyone in your current life that you have lost contact with. How important are they to you and your family? Do you want them back in your life, but they have baggage?

Explore the reasons why that person is no longer in your life. What if the reason was petty? It could be time to forgive and forget.

4. Losing a loved one

If you have recently lost a loved one, then it is very natural to dream about losing them. This is your mind trying to come to terms with the loss of someone extremely important to you.

In addition, you might even dream that they are alive one moment and then you can’t find them. Not to mention this is very upsetting, but it is a normal process that allows us to grieve.

If you haven’t lost a loved one recently, but the person you’ve lost in the dream is much loved, it’s possible that they represent some part of you that you’ve lost.

More often than not, losing someone that we love in a dream symbolises the part of them we admired the most that you feel you’ve lost yourself. You value that aspect of their personality highly and aspire to them. Perhaps you feel as if you’ve let them down.

Likewise, it could mean that someone close to you is disappointing you with their lack of effort. You worry that they won’t achieve their dreams because they are not working hard enough.

5. You have lost something important

In real life, we all have things that are important to us. A wedding ring, a photograph of a loved one, even simple things like our keys or wallets.

However, in dreams, these objects take on a more symbolic meaning. The wedding ring is your marriage, your house keys represent your safety, that photo is your family. In order to analyse a dream where you have lost something, it’s important to focus on what you’ve lost and what it represents to you.

The general message in lost object dreams is of feeling overwhelmed or distracted with everyday life. The dream might be advising you to slow down and take stock. Get organised and declutter your life.

If this doesn’t sound like you, then focus on the actual object that you lost. It is possible that the object symbolises a lost opportunity. This could be a relationship, a job, a house, an heirloom, or even part of yourself. Ask yourself what you actually lost and what significance it has for you in real life.

Another interpretation of a lost object dream is that you are avoiding something important. This could be a decision or having to tell someone a truth you know will hurt them.

What can you learn from dreams about being lost?

The first thing to ask yourself if you are having these kinds of dreams is ‘Where in your life do you feel lost or aimless?’ Identify the areas that are causing you anxiety or stress and you’re halfway to solving them.

For example, re-occurring dreams about a lost wedding ring are symbolic of marriage problems. However, maybe you don’t want to ask the question because you’re afraid of the answer. At some point, you’re going to have to make the decision to face up to what is going on in your marriage.

Dreams about being lost can frighten and scare you. But by analysing and identifying the cause of them you can re-examine your life and sort out any problems. Resolve these problems and your dreams about being lost should start to fade.


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